Get Out of Your Head in Bed

Name: Get Out of Your Head in Bed
Start: 2025-12-10T03:00:00.000Z
End: 2025-12-10T05:30:00.000Z
Location: Private venue (address provided with ticket purchase)

Private venue (address provided with ticket purchase)
Oakland
Tuesday, Dec 9th
7 PM - 9:30 PM PST
42 people on the list
Organized by TurnON.love

Do you find yourself performing sex instead of experiencing it? Do you get stuck in your head worrying about your appearance, performance, orgasm, or just your overwhelming to-do list?

Anxious thoughts make it difficult if not impossible to experience pleasure and are often at the root of many sexual problems, including erectile dysfunction and anorgasmia.

In this experiential workshop with intimacy coach and educator Dr. Alison Ash of TurnON.love you will:

Immerse in the sensations in your body and reconnect with your body as an instrument of pleasure.
Overcome obstacles that prevent you from letting go and receiving pleasure.
Co-create positive feedback loops of pleasure, using pleasure to build more pleasure.
Learn techniques for exploring your body and new ways to experience pleasure.
Discover how to stay connected to your embodied pleasure as you attune to your lover’s desires.

Learning how to get out of your head and into your body is essential for reducing anxiety and maximizing pleasure in both solo and shared sexual experiences.

Can't attend on this date? W atch this course on-demand at any time from home.

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Reviews

“Dr. Aly’s compassion and confidence puts rooms of strangers at ease, even while her workshops take you boldly to the most intimate of places. With her expert knowledge, personal skills and creative approaches, she is a gifted facilitator and guide.” — J.W.

“Dr. Aly seems to magically have all the answers. This is not just information, you will have actual habits and actions you can incorporate into your life the minute you walk out of the class. Dr. Aly has enabled me to better connect with my girlfriend in both an emotional and physical manner and has brought us closer together.” - P.B.

“If you want an accessible, inspiring, fascinating and safe space to explore intimacy, bodies and connection, I highly recommend these workshops. Dr. Aly has a unique ability to bring knowledge, humor, and support. I've attended 3 and each one has been a game changer in amazing and surprising ways.” - J.G.

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Important Information

Please take an at-home antigen test on the day of the workshop and take a photo of your results. Tests can also be purchased at the door for $10. If you are feeling unwell or develop symptoms, please stay home. Masks will be optional.
Arrive early 10-15 early so you can find parking and get settled, or 15-20 mins early if you are planning to test at the door. You may want to bring a pen and a closed water bottle.
I welcome folks of all genders, sexual orientations, relationship structures, ages, body types, races and ethnicities. Unfortunately this venue's bathroom may not be ADA accessible.
A limited number of volunteer and sliding scale tickets are available. Apply for a sliding scale ticket or send an email to coordinator@turnon.love to volunteer.
Tickets are not refundable. You may transfer them to another individual but not to a future event.

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