Under Your Spell: Mastering Headspace and Mental Play

The mind is the biggest erogenous zone; exploring its depths can lead to transformative and thrilling connections. In this hands-on class, we’ll dive into the psychological aspects of BDSM, including the dynamics of power exchange, punishment play, and the emotional spectrum of vulnerability and trust.

Starting with our favorite negotiation question — “How would you like to feel?” — participants will deepen their understanding of what drives our desires, to craft scenes that engage the mind, body, and spirit. This class give you new tools to negotiate, explore, and create experiences that are as meaningful as they are exhilarating. Perfect for Tops, Bottoms, and Switches looking to deepen their understanding of their scene partners and elevate their play!

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About the instructors:

Jack Woodland (@MrWoodland) is a BDSM educator, performer, event coordinator, and lifestyle player based in Los Angeles. A lifelong lover of spanking, Jack views this as his core fetish and continues to build a multifaceted career in BDSM, including performing, event production, and education. With over a decade of experience, Jack is deeply passionate about creating scenes that transcend the physical and tap into the mind to create true connections. His interest in precise physical technique is as an instrument to create emotional and psychological intensity.

Lark Dearborne (@larkly) is a Pansexual, Lifestyle Switch and a sex-positive, kink-friendly, Stylist, Costume Designer, and Event Producer based in Los Angeles, California. Drawing inspiration from her theater and film background, Lark emphasizes intentionality in both kink and performance, believing that every word spoken, every action taken, and every moment of performance should be purposeful. For her, trust, vulnerability, and the intersection of discipline and pleasure are the most powerful aspects of BDSM. Whether it’s playing with the psychological aspects of masochism or providing structure and rules for those seeking discipline, Lark thrives on creating meaningful connections and deep scenes.

NOTE: This is an +18 event. Material may be triggering for certain individuals as we will cover topics including but not limited to CNC, Degradation, and Humiliation.