HMU Academy: K*nk and BDSM 101 - A Hands On Sampler

Explore the exciting world of Kink & BDSM through live demos and hands-on practice in the realms of Impact Play, Bondage, & Sensation Play!

Join certified sex educator Jamie Joy for an interactive class on kink and BDSM! Whether you are just beginning to dabble or ready to live the lifestyle, this space is for you. Topics will include: vocabulary, finding your kinky persona, consent & negotiation, impact play, bondage & restraint, sensation play, and more!

**This workshop will emphasize safety, techniques, and how to establish clear communication through live demonstration**

We will cover everything you need to know to safely and confidently explore:

IMPACT - Spanking, Floggers, Paddles, and Canes

BONDAGE - Rope, Gags, Cuffs, Blindfolds, etc

SENSATION - Feathers, Pinwheels, Wax, etc

This class is open to all genders, sexualities, and experience levels. Come and play!

What should I bring?

You are welcome to bring your own toys for practice and supplies to take notes.

What should I wear?

Whatever you want!

Any skill pre-requisites? (i.e., is this for beginners, advanced, everyone?)

This class is for everyone. Even if you're well versed in some aspects of kinky play, you'll likely learn something new.

Can I attend solo, or do I need to come with a partner?

Solo, partnered, polycules and more are welcome to attend. You do not need to come with a partner.

Instructor Bio

Jamie Joy is a queer trans Jewish sex educator and hungry slut for freaky fantasies. Their life and work is committed to spreading joy, pleasure, and consent through community organizing. As a triple fire sign Sagittarius, Jamie Joy is passionate about teaching people how to play sadistically with flaming floggers and the wonders of anal fisting. They are always excited to connect with new friends; you can find them at www.jamiejoy.com or on Instagram @badjewboy.

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✨Location: Lower Manhattan. The space has an elevator. Please email hello@hitmeupnyc.com if you need any accessibility accommodations.

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