HMU Academy: Playfighting

Experience the intimacy of aggression through controlled and intentional movement.

Fan of struggle play? Looking for an excuse to get sweaty with your partner? Want to make your movement in bed feel more fluid? As adults, we won't often get permission to roughhouse as we once did in our youths. Wrestling or Playfighting is a way of taking this fun sport to a safe and sexy place.

You don't have to be Dom, sub, kinky, or experienced for this beginner-level class. As featured in the New York Post, Business Insider, Vice, and AMNY, Playfighting class is less about brute force and more about experiencing that intimacy of aggression.

We always change up some of the combo's every playfighting class, so while we cover some of the same basics like holds and power positions, expect to learn something new each time!

What to expect:

Learn various holds, positions, maneuvers, and most importantly safety to use during play.

No WWE moves here. In this class, you will learn basic Jui Jitsu-inspired maneuvers to properly control and contain your partner. Switch roles and take turns "fighting" for top. Whether you are smaller, bigger, or the same size as your person - we will help show you the best ways to utilize your bodily realities to your advantage.

Who should attend

All gender identities, sexual orientation, and relationship types. You are welcome to come with a parter(s) or come solo.

What to wear

Activewear preferred or non-loose fitting clothing. Plan to remove any belts, watches, sharp jewelry, or other things that can scratch folks. Feel free to bring a change of clothes in case you get sweaty!

About the Instructor:

Lola Jean is a Sex Educator, Fetish Wrestler, headmistress of 7 Days of Domination, and World Record Holder for Volume Squirting (solo.) providing the No Frills Sex Education we both need and deserve in a variety of mediums. Lola brings a refreshing understanding to sex, sexuality, and kink to push individuals past what they think they are capable of.

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Key Info

💜 Volunteers: Volunteers needed for door and setup/cleanup. Email admin@hitmeupnyc.com to express interest. Volunteers recieve a free ticket to the event

💜 Equity pricing: We recognize that folks have different access to financial resources for a variety of reasons, including being of a marginalized identity. If you are Queer, BIPOC or do not have the financial capacity for a full-priced ticket please email admin@hitmeupnyc.com for a discount code.

💜 Location: Lower Manhattan. The space has an elevator. Please email hello@hitmeupnyc.com if you need any accessibility accommodations.

💜 Vaccination: Full vaccination against Covid 19 is required. While we recommend getting the booster shots, we are not verifying them at this time.

💜 Consent Policy: This is an ASK FIRST event and the rules of respectful and consensual behavior WILL be enforced.

💜 Membership: This event is open to the public. We reserve the right to refuse entry if needed. Hit Me Up also hosts private events which are invite only, and anyone new to Hit Me Up must apply and be approved to attend—no guests or plus ones. If you’d like to apply or invite a new member, please see: https://www.hitmeupnyc.com/join.

You are welcome to inquire as to your status or that of your friends, but please do not act as if you have an entitlement to access our space or members. Building special spaces is hard, and while we are inclusive and welcoming, we reserve the right to curate our membership as needed to maintain our flourishing community.

💜 Please stay home if you are feeling ill or if you have had recent close contact with someone who tested Covid positive (within the past 5 days). You could be incubating and still test negative. Any requests for refunds for any reason will be honored up to the day of the party. Remember: safe, sane, and sanitary Just email hello@hitmeupnyc.com and we will give you a full refund, no questions asked.