HMU Academy: Public Play for Everyone

Does the thought of getting frisky in public excite you? Learn covert and overt ways to play on your own or with others when you're out!

Does the thought of getting frisky in public excite you?

"Playing in Public" means any type of play (doesn't have to be explicitly s*xual) that's in public. Yes, there's a possibility of someone seeing you BUT being discovered/seen may or may not be your intent. Public play can also be with a partner(s) or on your own. Let's explore the possibilities and ways of playing in public in new and exciting ways!

In this class, you will learn

1. how to unleash your inner exhibitionist
2. how to improve your or your partner's comfort if you/they are a non-exhibitionist (AKA covert play)
3. how to improve your own or your partner's comfort in public
4. tips for how to play overtly or covertly in public (no one has to be the wiser!)
5. tips for location ideas, from beginner to more advanced
6. tips for personal play in public and/or playing with another/others
7. tips for dressing/undressing quickly
8. suggestions for toys and other helpful play tools
9. tips for edging, games, and "tasks"
10. how to keep leveling up your public s*xploration, if that's your goal
11. how to pinpoint your strongest org@sm triggers so you can get your freak on faster, easier, and anywhere
12. how be safer and more prudent (AKA how to avoid getting caught!)
14. Level
15. This class is for everyone! Exhibitionists and non-exhibitionists alike will find plenty of ideas for how to play in public to their level of comfort and excitement.
17. Format
18. This is an organized class that incorporates visuals (PowerPoint and demonstrations), explanations and class participation. Demonstrations will include ways to covertly and overtly play in public including ways to dress & items to carry to optimize for covert/overt play, ideas for things to wear beneath your clothes, toys to incorporate, and more.

FAQs

FAQ: what should I bring?

Please bring a notebook and a pen/pencil to take notes. There will be a rope demo- feel free to bring 10-20ft of 1/4"-1" diameter rope if you'd like to follow along with a rope demo (nylon and cotton rope is super cheap, available online and will work well). I will also share a video after the class of this demo so you can easily follow at home.

FAQ: what should I wear?

I encourage everyone to wear what makes them feel good. I'll be dressing/undressing and demonstrating ways to use toys as well as other ways to play in public.

FAQ: any skill pre-requisites? (i.e., is this for beginners, advanced, everyone?)

This class is for everyone, even if you think you might not be k!nky.

FAQ: can I attend solo, or do I need to come with a partner?

Come on your own, with partner(s) or friends!

About Your Instructor

Knotasha (she/her) is a s*x educator and fet!sh model who has been actively in the k*nk scene for a decade. For over 8 years, she has taught and co-taught at venues and k*nky conventions such as HitMeUp Academy, K*nk dot com, Soho House, Westcoast Bound, KinkFest, Thunder in the Mountains, and DomCon. Knotasha loves sharing what she's learned so you have tools to help make your desires a reality.

IG/X: KnotashaNYC

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