HMU Academy: Sweet Nasty - The Art of Dirty Talk

Miss Bloom will lead folks through fun and interactive activities to help you figure out your dirty talk style and how to say the damn thing

About the Class

Do you wish you could whisper sweet, filthy things to your partner, but the cat's got your tongue? Are you a confident speaker at dinner parties but less so in the bedroom? Do you feel shy or experience shame when it comes to talking during sexy moments? If so, this workshop is for you!Miss Bloom will guide you through fun, interactive activities to help you discover your dirty talk style and learn how to say the damn thing! We’ll explore arousing language that can excite your partner and create unforgettable experiences. And if you stick around after the workshop, you might even meet some cuties and put your new skills to the test. 😉

About Your Instructor

Niki Davis-Fainbloom is a Canadian-born, New York-based sex educator, writer and coach who just moved to NOLA. Since receiving her Master’s degree studying the psychology of sexual dysfunction from NYU, she has facilitated hundreds of sexual education workshops at locations including Planned Parenthood, New York University, and The United Nations. Her writing has also been featured in publications such as Mind Body Green, Cosmopolitan, Refinery 29, and Pornhub Sexual Wellness Center. Her work uses up-to-date research, humor, and practical advice to help people develop the skills to have healthier and more satisfying romantic and sexual relationships. She is an expert in fetishes, and much of her coaching involves helping folks navigate unique desires, ethical non-monogamy, sexual communication, and pleasure.

FAQsBFAQ: what should I bring?

Yourselves :)

FAQ: any skill pre-requisites? (i.e., is this for beginners, advanced, everyone?)

Everyone! Though it starts from the basics, so great for beginner, but everyone should get something out of it

FAQ: what should I wear?

anything!

FAQ: can I attend solo, or do I need to come with a partner?

Solo or with a partner

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