HMU Academy: Tantric Intimacy Social

A mixer and sexy social gathering to foster deeper and more authentic intimate connections.

About the Event

Many of us crave intimate connections that feel intuitive, explosive and organic. There are a plethora of educational resources and spaces to learn more about the principles and tools of Tantra, but theory doesn’t always transfer or integrate into our everyday dating and relating lives.

Join us on Sunday May 4th at 2pm for “Tantric Intimacy Social,” an event where attendees will learn a variety of skills + tools of Tantra, embodiment and somatics + a curated space to apply the knowledge to new connections in real time.

Attendees Can Expect:

1. Openning demonstration and group grounding to introduce consent-centeredness + Tantric tools of touch & connection
2. Guided-timed sensation stations featuring rope/bondage, electro/temperature, impact, and massage
3. Speed dating guided by questions for deeper human to human connection
4. Small bites and refreshments + BYOB (complimentary A and N/A beverages will be available)

FAQs

FAQ: What should I bring?

BYOB if you would like to add any refreshments that are not seltzer, hard seltzer and Mimosas.

FAQ: What should I wear?

Clothes that make you feel sexy! Think "Date Night" - but you don't have to have a date to come!

FAQ: Any skill pre-requisites? (i.e., is this for beginners, advanced, everyone?)

All are welcome - beginner to advanced. What’s most important is to come with a willingness to push past your comfort zone and be vulnerable.

FAQ: Can I attend solo, or do I need to come with a partner?

This is a sexy social and speed dating event geared for solo and non-monogamous folks.

About Your Instructors

Bear (he/him) & Fifi (they/them) are coaches, educators, and event producers. They apply neuro-linguistics and tangible Tantric + somatic tools. They offer safer spaces for people to practice collective mindfulness and embodiment. Their work's mission is to challenge social standards and binaries, address the personal barriers that limit human connection, and offer different ways of relating that center consent & safety, authenticity, autonomy, and collective care.

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✨Location: Lower Manhattan. The space has an elevator. Please email hello@hitmeupnyc.com if you need any accessibility accommodations.

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