Come discover how reducing someone to an object can build the deepest trust — and the dirtiest scenes!

This Hit Me Up event is open to the public, 21+.

Objectification is a deeply charged facet of play that centers power, identity, and desire through transformation. This workshop dives into the world of becoming a thing — and how that experience can unlock profound connection and catharsis.

Together, we’ll explore the psychological landscape of objectification, how to negotiate boundaries, design roles and scenes that are both hot and affirming, and bring fantasies to life while embracing the healing power of surrender and control.

Get ready to explore a wide range of objectification styles!

Come discover how reducing someone to an object can build the deepest trust — and the dirtiest scenes.

About the Instructors

Jamie Joy (they/them) is a queer trans Jewish certified sex educator and hungry slut for freaky fantasies. Their life and work is committed to spreading joy, consent, and pleasure through community orgynizing. They have been educating on a wide range of topics related to sex and sexuality for the past 10+ years with experience in K-12 schools, health clinics, college campuses, adult sex shops, national conferences, BDSM dungeons, non-profits, community organizations, and more. Jamie Joy loves to stay up late, throw an unforgettable party, and teach people about the wonders of fisting and fire play. They are always excited to connect and collaborate - find them on Instagram @thebadjewboy or their website www.jamiejoy.com

FAQs

FAQ: what should I bring?

Optional: supplies to take notes with

FAQ: any skill pre-requisites? (i.e., is this for beginners, advanced, everyone?)

Open to everyone of all genders, sexualities, experiences, and skill levels

FAQ: what should I wear?

Whatever you want!

FAQ: can I attend solo, or do I need to come with a partner?

No partner required!

Price Transparency

The full fee for this workshop is $30. The full fee reflects the true costs of running the event, including supplies and compensating facilitators for their labor. If you are able to afford a full price ticket without experiencing financial hardship, please choose this option. Those who cannot afford a full fee ticket are welcome to use the discount code EQUITY25 at checkout.

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✨Location: 120 Walker St in Lower Manhattan. The space has an elevator. Please email hello@hitmeupnyc.com if you need any accessibility accommodations.

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