HMU Academy: Tools for deepening your intimacy kink

  • Hosted by Hit Me Up
  • New York, NY -
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Hit Me Up: Academy

Tools for Deepening Your Intimacy Kink

We will start our time together with a didactic overview of what somatic intelligence, non violent communication, mindfulness and positive psychology, can teach us about creating and deepening in intimate connection - with ourselves + others.

Then you’ll spend time working in pairs to put these tools into practice: responding to prompts, sharing positive reflections, engaging in active listening to start, then graduating into eye gazing, sync’d breathing and hugging.

Then we’ll circle up, to reflect and integrate; you’ll leave with concrete ways to bring what you’ve learned back into your life, and your relationships.

Come with a partner, or come solo.

About the instructor: As Founder of Equanimity Equation, Allie's work focuses at the intersection of experience design x inner work x community. She has facilitated hundreds of experiences, communicates with a digital community of 20,000+ people on a weekly basis, and has built a vibrant community of hundreds of single NY'ers who are thoughtfully approaching dating and relating. Allie holds a Master of Arts degree in psychology with an area of focus in spirituality from Columbia University.

IG Handle: @alliehoffman


✨Ticket types and prices: all ticket types are for the same experience - you can get a ticket early to pay the lower price. If cost is prohibitive, please email 

✨Location: Lower Manhattan. Please email if you need any accessibility accommodations. The space has an elevator.

✨Full vaccination is required. While we recommend getting the booster shots, we are not verifying them at this time.

✨Volunteers: a limited number of volunteer spots are available to assist with set up, breakdown, and door in exchange for a free ticket. Please email to express interest. 

✨Consent Policy: This is an ASK FIRST event and the rules of respectful and consensual behavior WILL be enforced. You will be responsible for reading the policy and behaving appropriately. Please click here to read our consent policy in full.

✨Membership: This event is open to the public. We reserve the right to refuse entry if needed.

Hit Me Up also hosts private events which are invite only, and anyone new to Hit Me Up must apply and be approved to attend—no guests or plus ones. If you’d like to apply or invite a new member, please fill out this form: Hit Me Up New Member Application. You are welcome to inquire as to your status or that of your friends, but please do not act as if you have an entitlement to access our space or members. Building special spaces is hard, and while we are inclusive and welcoming, we reserve the right to curate our membership as needed to maintain our flourishing community.

Please stay home if you are feeling ill or if you have had recent close contact with someone who tested Covid positive (within the past 5 days). You could be incubating and still test negative. Any requests for refunds for any reason will be honored up to the day of the party. Remember: safe, sane, and sanitary Just email and we will give you a full refund, no questions asked.

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