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HOT SQUIRMING - Erotic Humiliation Play with Midori!

Shame Never Felt So Good.

When: Sunday, June 1st, 2025, 11:00 AM - 1:00 PM, Pacific Time

Where: Online, Zoom

Ticket Link:

https://forbiddentickets.com/events/black-thorn/2025-06-01-hot-squirming-erotic-humiliation-play

Fetlife RSVP:

https://fetlife.com/events/1763096

Please note: This class will be recorded and the recording will be available to attendees.

Are you trying to better understand erotic humiliation? Have you questioned yourself on your desire or ability to make another squirm? Have you ever secretly wanted to be put on the spot or shown how naughty you really are? Do you want to learn how to do this well and avoid disasters?*

If so, then this class is for you!

Below are some of the common questions about this type of psychological play that will be addressed:

Why do people get off on being embarrassed or humiliated?

  1. What are the potential psychological ramifications?
  2. What's different for a one-time scene vs. playing with your life partner?
  3. What’s the difference between a healthy and constructive scene and one that is destructive and harmful?

Emphasizing emotional safety throughout, Midori will explore a wide range of play from light teasing and embarrassment to serious humiliation. She will also share a unique model she’s developed to better understand and create an experience that is hot for all the players involved.

This is a lecture style class with discussions and visual examples. There may be a live humiliation scene, or a demonstration of a live negotiation of a humiliation scene, as part of this learning experience.

If you want to read up a little on this topic in advance, read her chapter on Humiliation Play in her book “Wild Side Sex: The Book of Kink”

This class will be recorded for later viewing. Your privacy is guaranteed. You can be visible or not visible. You can change your name or ID or be anonymous in the room.

Bring your questions and curiosity to this entertaining class! Everyone is welcome!

Instructor Bio:

Midori (美登里)

Born and raised, Japan, then spending formative years in 90’s San Francisco safer sex and alt sex activists circles, Midori brings a multicultural and holistic approach to education and discussion of kink, BDSM, and consent.

Dubbed the “Supernova of Kink” by Dan Savage, Midori emerged from the Sex Positive movement in San Francisco in the early 1990s as a grassroots activist educator to became a well regarded educator and thinker on BDSM sexuality, kink, consent, and sex ways in Japan and the US.

Midori founded Rope Dojo in 2003, ForteFemme Women’s Dominance Weekend Intensive in 2004, and Consent Dojo in 2020.

She is Co-director of Education for Kink Informed Certification through Sexual Health Alliance. She has served as advisor for many organizations and companies on matters of BDSM, kink, and consent. She has presented at many conferences, including kink conferences, mental health conferences, and internet security events.

Her teaching style and strength lay in her ability to deconstruct and distill complex matters of desire into accessible lessons with humor and humanity.

She known for her books “Wild Side Sex: The Book of Kink” and “The Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage”, the first English instruction book on Shibari. She contributed the chapter on BDSM and women of the Asian diaspora in “An Intersectional Approach to Sex Therapy: Centering the Lives of Indigenous, Racialized, and People of Color”, and has contributed to numerous articles, columns, works of fiction, and instructional books.