For the past 10 years, House of Black has been San Diego’s go to place for swinging, kink, community, connection, and consensual carnal pleasure—and now it’s time to celebrate in the most glamorous way possible.

Step into the spotlight and walk the Black Carpet, where decadence meets desire and every moment glitters with possibility.

This isn’t just a party—it’s an anniversary milestone, a tribute to a decade of community, and a night of sultry sophistication that only HOB can deliver.

🌟 The Evening’s Seductive Flow

🎥 Black Carpet Glam Photos

Shine like the star you are with sexy photo ops in front of our brand new logo backdrop and throughout our many newly refreshed themed rooms—from lush lounges to decadent dungeons.

🍴 Hors d’oeuvres & Indulgence

Our alluring tray-bearing submissives will be serving decadent hors d’oeuvres to keep your energy as high as your heels.

🔥 Opening Ceremonies & Performance

At 9PM, don’t miss our ceremonial kickoff, featuring a kinky, sensual performance by Goddess Fae & Devil Trey, flowing into heartfelt speeches and shared reflections on 10 years of House of Black. From there, the playrooms open, and the real celebration begins.

💋 Playtime in Style

Explore, indulge, and let go in our sexy themed play spaces. Whether you’re kinky, swinger-curious, tantric, LGBTQ+, or simply here to explore—you belong.

🍸 BYOB & Social Vibes

Bring your favorite spirits —we provide sodas, mixers, and water. Our sexy, savvy bartender will keep your drinks fresh (don’t forget to tip generously for the magic).

👗 What Do We Wear?!?

✨ Theme: It’s Black Carpet Glam, baby—channel your inner star with a House of Black twist

Glamorous Black Tie Elegance to start the night. End the evening in lingerie—or nothing but your birthday suit.

Femme: Gowns, cocktail dresses, lingerie, pasties, skirts. Cover up until you’re inside, then reveal your true glam self.

Masc: Suits, slacks, button-ups, polished shoes (not required, but every Goddess loves a man in a suit). Don’t forget your sexy underwear—you may get caught with your pants down if you’re lucky.

GNC: Dress to impress. Classy, sexy, fetish chic—make it bold, make it YOU.

💫 For Our Newbies

✨ Arrive between 7–8PM for a New Member Tour. We’ll cover rules, etiquette, and answer your questions, ensuring your first House of Black night is sexy, safe, and stress-free.

🚪 Doors Close at 10PM

No in & out privileges after 10PM. Arrive on time—no late entry, no refunds.

🤝 Consent is Sexy at HOB

At House of Black, Consent, Respect, & Open Minds are the foundation of our community:

Yes is YES. No is NO. Maybe = NO.

Consent can be changed at any time. Always honor it.

Use a clear, verbal “NO” if you don’t want to do something.

Respect people, their scenes, and their space.

Keep play in the playrooms, and socializing in social areas.

Don’t “yuck” someone else’s yum—diversity of desire is what makes our community shine.

Our trained staff is always available—lean on them for support so you can feel safe, empowered, and free.

🎟 Membership Required

Due to California law for events of this nature, membership is required.

WHAT IS HOUSE OF BLACK?

House of Black is owned by Goddess Fae Black, a female bi-sexual LS Kinkster who has a passion for providing a sexy space for people to indulge in their fantasies! We have several volunteer staff members and are always looking for more people who want to get involved in our member community.

House of Black is a Members Lifestyle & Kink Club which features 7 uniquely styled rooms, a lounge area, 2 bathrooms (w/shower), and a large private outdoor balcony. We host sex positive parties, workshops, discussion groups, game nights & more!

House of Black is also availble for Rentals...It is also available for rent for your own private playtime or sexy photoshoot.

CONTACT US

Email: info@houseofblack.com if you'd like to hear more about volunteering or have any questions.

Rentals: Please text 8587519433 the following info:

First & Last Name if each individual that will be included in the rental?

(We do check ID at the door, names must match ID, must be 21+)

Date, Start Time, & How Many Hours?

Which Room(s) or Whole Facility?

What is the Purpose of Your Rental?

How did you hear about House of Black?

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