How to be Led

How to be Led

A class on how to be led by the feminine

Have you found yourself drawn to FemmeDomme and wondered how to properly submit? Or simply found yourself enthralled be feminine power and wanted to step into the world of surrender?

Men are often suffocated under the constraints of gender. And want to be led but are afraid to, or struggle with a desire for this but a feeling that they shouldn’t because it’s not “what real men do”.

This class is to teach men what the liberation of being led feels like, looks like, and how reverence is the portal to connection.

We will discuss themes of masculinity as they have been conditioned within us, and explore ways to successfully release them while stepping into a place where we feel more empowered and connected. The deep esotericism of how to access our feelings while letting go of our pre conceived notions that harm us will liberate us all. Expect this to be a deep undertaking of shedding things that have hurt us, and come prepared for an intense exploration of what it means to submit and find the power and bliss within that.

Class structure:

Intros

Archetypes, a discussion on masculinity

Demos

Role play in exploring submission

Discussion around what comes up, and how to move through it

Accessing our feelings

Second role play

Conclusions/discussion

Class dismissed

Taught by Dominatrix Rin (xxrin.com) at The Red Cathedral

This class is open to anyone. It is structure towards men (all men are welcome. Trans men are men). Couple are welcome. People who are excited to explore and discuss concepts of toxic masculinity and sacred masculinity while led by a FemmeDomme are welcome.

Tickets are sliding scale $25-$100

You must be sober to attend this event. We do not provide alcohol and ask that you do not bring alcohol or drugs. Those who are not sober will be asked to sit out any play. We firmly believe that being inebriated impairs your judgment and will affect your ability to properly consent. We take consent very seriously.

This is a strictly shoes off space. So keep that in mind for your outfit planning.

Accessibility

There are two sets of stairs.

Wheelchairs can be carried down and attendees assisted if need be. I sense is burned unless any attendees are scent sensitive. Please let us know in advance so we can be mindful of this. Some seating will be available for those with disabilities. Just let us know what your needs are.

This space is vetted. Meaning we will be making sure you are not a homophobe or a chaser (as mentioned above!). What is a chaser? Someone who heavily fetishizes queer and trans people without any care about who they are as human beings.

No homophobia

No transphobia

No racism

No sexism

No body shaming/fat phobia

Free Palestine

No antisemitism

Respect consent

The Red Cathedral is an proudly antifascist space

Please reach out to redcathedral

@protonmail.com for vetting and more information