Inner Sanctum: A Conscious Men's Fisting Party

Inner Sanctum is more than a play party — it’s a gathering of men who want to go beyond the surface and step into depth, trust, and surrender. Here, fisting is honored not just as physical play, but as a sacred practice of intimacy and connection.

“Inner” speaks to the depth of this exploration — physical, emotional, and energetic. “Sanctum” reflects the protected, intentional container we hold together, where bodies become vessels of energy, power, and presence. This is a space for men who want to fuse erotic intensity with mindful attention, eye contact, and authentic connection.

What You Can Expect

1. Preparation Zone: A space to warm up with toys, explore gentle play, and ease into connection before moving deeper.
2. Main Play Area: Outfitted with mats, slings, beds, and benches, creating room for full engagement in a respectful, intentional atmosphere.
3. Energy & Connection: The focus of the evening is presence. Expect soft speaking, direct eye contact, and exchanges that value trust, safety, and surrender.
4. Safer Sex & Supplies: Condoms, lube , gloves and
5. Aftercare & Social Space: A designated chill zone allows for decompression, conversation, and care before and after play.

Your Facilitator

This container will be guided by Dan, a seasoned member of the Kink Collective known for creating relaxed, welcoming spaces for men’s erotic play. Dan emphasizes safety, consent, and connection — reminding participants that this is as much about presence and community as it is about the intensity of the act itself. His facilitation ensures that whether you’re a newcomer or deeply experienced, you’ll feel held, supported, and free to explore at your own pace.

House Rules

1. Consent is non-negotiable. Always ask. Respect the answer.
2. Confidentiality is sacred. What happens here, stays here.
3. Phones and cameras are not allowed in play areas.
4. Care for yourself and each other. Aftercare is part of play.
5. Honor the container: soft speaking, presence, and respect guide the energy.

Event Details + Tickets

When: Saturday, October 18th (or the 3rd Saturday of each month.

Time: Doors open at 8 PM. Play continues until 1 AM. (Pre-sales close one hour before doors open.)

Where: The Sanctuary 113 E 125th Street 2nd floor, New York, NY 10035. Push door (hard) upon arrival and come up the stairs.

Tickets:

1. Members: $30 advance | $40 at door
2. Non-Members: $40 advance | $50 at door

🎟️ Purchase your Advance Tickets Here