Inner Sanctum: A Conscious Men's Fisting Party

“Inner” speaks to the depth of this exploration — physical, emotional, and energetic. “Sanctum” reflects the protected, intentional container we hold together, where bodies become vessels of energy, power, and presence. This is a space for men who want to fuse erotic intensity with mindful attention, eye contact, and authentic connection.

Fisting is the gradual, consensual insertion of a hand into a partner’s body — a practice rooted in trust, communication, and presence. For many, it’s less about intensity and more about surrender, safety, and shared energy.

In this space, fisting is honored as a sacred act of intimacy and connection. We move with intention, awareness, and care — and yes, with eroticism.

This party is for all male-bodied participants to explore together in a container built on curiosity, respect, and authenticity.

All experience levels are welcome. Come witness, learn, and connect.

What You Can Expect

1. Preparation Zone: A space to warm up with toys, explore gentle play, and ease into connection before moving deeper.
2. Main Play Area: Outfitted with mats, slings, beds, and benches, creating room for full engagement in a respectful, intentional atmosphere.
3. Energy & Connection: The focus of the evening is presence. Expect soft speaking, direct eye contact, and exchanges that value trust, safety, and surrender.
4. Safer Sex & Supplies: Condoms, lube , gloves and
5. Aftercare & Social Space: A designated chill zone allows for decompression, conversation, and care before and after play.

What you should bring to this party

1. Lube: Everyone has a preference. Please bring your own lube
2. Gloves: one size does not fit all
3. Toys: please bring your own toys for warmups and play. Be sure to bring a suitable bag to transport your toys home for cleaning
4. Shower Essentials: A towel, body wash, and unscented deodorant**

A shower is available for after play wash-up only || NO ON SITE CLEAN-OUTS!!! || Please arrive cleaned out and ready for play. That being said, we understand that accidents do happen but please do your best to arrive prepared and ready for play. Unfortunately, you will be asked to leave if not.

Lockers are available to store personal items - Bring your own lock or you may rent one.

Rentals & Supplies:

1. Locker Lock: $5.00
2. Towel: $5.00
3. Lube (4 oz bottle): $5.00

Your Facilitator

This container will be guided by Dan, a seasoned member of the Kink Collective known for creating relaxed, welcoming spaces for men’s erotic play. Dan emphasizes safety, consent, and connection — reminding participants that this is as much about presence and community as it is about the intensity of the act itself. His facilitation ensures that whether you’re a newcomer or deeply experienced, you’ll feel held, supported, and free to explore at your own pace.

House Rules

1. Consent is non-negotiable | Always ask. Respect the answer.
2. Confidentiality is sacred | What happens here, stays here.
3. Phones and cameras are not allowed in play areas.
4. Care for yourself and each other | Aftercare is part of play.
5. Honor the container | soft speaking, presence, and respect guide the energy.
6. Prepare your nails | Trimmed, & filed. No sharp edges and hangnails. We prefer that gloves be worn for all encounters.

Event Details + Tickets

When: Saturday, December 20th

Time: Doors open at 8 PM. Play continues until 1 AM. (Pre-sales close one hour before doors open.)

Where: The Sanctuary 113 E 125th Street 2nd floor, New York, NY 10035. Push door (hard) upon arrival and come up the stairs.

Tickets:

$30.00 Regular | $20.00 Members

Same price at the door | cash, cashapp, paypal, venmo, zelle, etc

🎟️ Purchase your Advance Tickets Here