Oil I Need Is A Miracle, All I Need Is YOU! 😉 Jinky Kews December Manhattan Holiday and Chanukah Munch

Say bye bye 2025 and come for the latkes, stay for the laughter, leave with your soul and your social battery full ❤️

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🥔✨🕎🍩 Calling all Jewish, Jew ish, Jew curious kinksters and all kink adjacent cuties! Come soak in the glow of good company, hot carbs, and low-pressure connection at the most talked about and coziest table in town. Being Jewish is not required, although an appreciation for snacks, consent, and a slightly unhinged sense of humor is strongly encouraged. You do not need to be Jewish to join us! Everyone is welcome!

This December the Jinky crew is bringing the Festival of Lights energy to our regular Manhattan home. Think of it as Chanukah for your heart and nervous system. We are talking latke level warmth, sufganiyah level sweetness to our group of kinky, questioning, and quietly curious folks who understand that connection can be sacred, and silly, at the same time! There is a seat for you at this table. You are welcome here exactly as you are. You do not need to be Jewish to join us!

No dress code, no play, no pressure. This is a social munch. It is about chatting, laughing, comparing notes, and building community in a public, vanilla setting. Bring your good vibes, your awkwardness, your delight, and your desire to meet other humans who prioritize consent, curiosity, and kindness.

We look forward welcoming you to connect and kiki with some of the most gorgeous, thoughtful, and gloriously unique members of the NYC (and beyond) kinky scene. 🕯✨

Jinky Kews Manhattan Monthly Munch & Mingle -- Always on the 3rd Thursday of the month!

🗓️ Thursday, November 20, 2025

⌚ 6:00 pm – 8:30 pm

📌 The Hugh (Foodhall and Atrium)

📍 157 E 53rd St, New York, NY 10022 (btwn Lex & 3rd Aves)

How to find us:

🎯 Come inside to the food hall, in to the atrium area and Look for 2 big screen TVs and the tallest, big-bodied blonde you ever saw. Just say “Jinky” as it’s our password, to be sure.

🎃🐈‍⬛ You’ll also spot the signature two black cat Beanie Babies with tiny pumpkins in their mouths on the table(s).

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💋 NEW @ JINKY KEWS: PRESSURE FREE FLIRTING IS NOW ALLOWED!

We heard you, cuties! Jinky Kews has always been about connection, and now we’re opening the door for a little more playful chemistry. This is NOT a dating event, but if sparks fly, we’re here for it. To make things smoother, we’re introducing simple headspace flags:

🤍 White = Platonic connections only  do NOT flirt, but DO get to know me!

❤️ Red = Open to romantic/flirty possibilities  ok to flirt, respectfully.

💙 Blue = Dominant identifying

💜 Purple = Submissive identifying

💙+💜 Blue & Purple = Switch identifying

There will be silicone flagging bracelets available for purchase, Please note, you are welcome to flag with your choice of items, handkerchiefs, scarves, flowers in your hair, the color sweater you choose to wear… You get the picture!!! Flagging is optional, not required, just like being Jewish is not required! Come as you are and just be fun and friendly!

Flirt responsibly, keep it cute, and remember:

If someone says “no thanks” or isn’t enthusiastic, move along gracefully. Consent and kindness are always the sexiest thing at Jinky Kews.

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This is the munch where first-timers meet regulars, tops meet brats, and curiosity meets opportunity, all in a relaxed, low-pressure, upbeat and laughter -filled atmosphere. Whether you’re here to network, flirt, relax after work, reconnect, or find your next scene partner, Jinky Kews serves up community, kink, and fun on one sticky, delicious platter.

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What's this? A munch is a casual, vanilla, social gathering, perfect for everyone from novice to expert in the realm of BDSM, kink, and/or fetish lifestyles, as well as those who are simply curious. To be sure, it's all about the mingling and good vibes and zero play/activities as we are meeting in a vanilla and public environment!

Objective To bring together mishpocheh (<-- that's family in Yiddish😉), kinky souls who share a connection via Judaism, and for those who are curious to see how these worlds mesh. Whether you're a seasoned member of the tribe or just dipping your matzah into the curious waters, everyone's invited to come. So let's schmooze, schmear, and delve into the hodgepodge of kink and Judaism – no Jewish lineage required!

Our mission? Building community. To connect with fellow open-minded folks, have a blast in respectful conversations, and explore the delightful intersection of kink and Judaism. And don't you worry, whether you're hankering for some kosher delights or juggling dietary restrictions, the surrounding food court has a mishmash of tastes. So let's nosh, kibitz, and let the good times kvell😄

Mix and Mingle! We'll meet one another and connect with fellow attendees who share a mutual interest or curiosity about the quirky dynamics of being Jewish and kinky. Let's forge new friendships, nosh on some goodies, and sip on beverages while expanding our networks in an atmosphere that's welcoming, respectful and safe! We encourage open-mindedness and respect for diverse perspectives. Come with an open heart and mind to learn, and share.

Event Guidelines:

Respect: Treat everyone with kindness and respect. This is a safe space for open and non-triggering dialogue and connection.

Inclusivity: Jinky Kews welcomes individuals from all backgrounds, orientations, and levels of experience.

Vanilla Atmosphere: While we discuss kink and Jewish identity, the setting remains vanilla to ensure a comfortable and inclusive environment. Be mindful of those around us and please wear vanilla attire.

Consent Is Imperative: Always ask for and respect others' boundaries. Consent is crucial in creating a positive experience for everyone. A consent violation occurs when someone's boundaries or autonomy are disregarded, and actions are taken without their explicit, informed, and voluntary agreement. This can include:

1. Deception: Misleading someone or withholding important information to manipulate their consent.
2. Coercion: Pressuring or forcing someone to agree to something they otherwise would not.
3. Ignoring Withdrawal of Consent: Continuing an action after the other person has revoked their consent.
4. Forceful Acts: Engaging in physical or emotional actions that cause, or could cause, harm without the other person's consent.
5. Disregard for Others’ Right to Privacy and Anonymity: this includes but is not limited to sharing names, photos, personal details, or identifying information about anyone without their explicit permission, whether in person or online.

In essence, a consent violation is any behavior where someone's right to make a free and informed choice is denied or overridden. Anyone with a history of having been a consent violator is unwelcome.

Any questions - please message us! Join our group here and continue the conversations online 😉

Thank you!