Plura

Kink on the Spectrum: A Neurodivergent Mixer

Event updated to no longer be just for singles. Whether partnered or not, come make friends and find connection!

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Yes, "spectrum" primarily refers to those with Autism. No, this event isn't only for that. This event is open to all who consider themselves neurodivergent. We couldn't resist the cute title.

Finally, a mixer to allow folks under the varied umbrella of neurodivergence to be able to connect and meet. This is for those who understand and respect the beauty of authority transfer and kinky play. Whether you're looking for a play partner, a new friend, or a love connection, this is a fun way to be in a room full of like-minded kinksters. This in-person mixer is a way to bring us all together and make it easier to find one another. We're here to help you be in the room when it happens and find your person or your people.

There will be an option to wear a wristband to flag that you are open to romance. This is optional. Don’t want it? Don't take it.

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What can you expect?

  1. The first part of the night will be a discussion. Seated roundtable style, both sides of the slash will be able to : topics: everything from how you see kink in a unique way to whether or not you believe your neurodivergence helps or hinders your kink journey.
  2. The second part of the night will include breaking into smaller groups based on 1 or 2 questions that will be asked in real time.
  3. Finally for the remaining time, the night will ease into an open mix and mingle. Folks can either continue the conversations started before, use some of our conversation starters, or chat about whatever!
  4. A quiet corner for folks to take a break and chill.

Who is this event for?

This event is for ALL who identify as neurodivergent. Whether you are poly or monogamous, we are creating a safe space for EVERYONE along the spectrum into kink and BDSM. The intention is to be able to enter a room where everyone can in some way relate to one another. Come enjoy!

Dress Code:

We ask that folks dress in whatever way makes you happiest. Come ready to meet people, have conversations, and mix and mingle! Have a question? Ask.

Can I come if I am partnered/not interested in romance?

Yes! This event is for all who are neurodivergent. There is an option to flag if open to romance. This is optional and not mandatory at all.

The event venue is a bar. Must be 21+ to enter. And we will be in a private area downstairs and can control lights, music volume, and other sensory inputs.