LA I'll Have What He's Having: Lingam Massage w/ Monique and Peter

Discover the art of sacred touch in a playful, embodied workshop. Deepen connection, awaken pleasure, and explore with curiosity and care.

***Get your tickets early as we often sell out!

I’ll Have What He’s Having: The Art of Lingam Worship

What if we slowed everything down… and treated the lingam not as a performance piece or pressure point, but as a sacred altar of sensation, connection, and healing?

In this deliciously embodied workshop, we’ll dive into the art of lingam massage—a practice that invites both the giver and the receiver into deeper presence, reverence, and play. This isn’t about “doing it right.” This is about tuning in, listening with your hands, and honoring the lingam as a gateway to energy, emotion, and ecstasy.

You’ll learn how to offer a full-body yes through your touch, how to awaken the many pleasure zones of the lingam (yes, there are so many more than you think), and how to build trust, safety, and surrender—moment by moment.

We’ll explore breath, sound, intention, and movement as ways to unlock the body’s natural wisdom. You’ll also discover how this practice can support healing shame, expanding pleasure, and deepening connection—whether with a beloved or in solo practice.

Lingam massage isn’t just about touch—it’s a love letter written with your hands. A prayer. A celebration.

This experience is for all genders, all levels of experience, and all those curious about deepening their relationship with the lingam—your own or another’s. Come solo, bring a partner, or meet a new practice buddy in the space.

As always, clothing optional, consent mandatory, and giggles warmly welcome.

Love Exchange The class will be tailored to those participating. Each attendee can choose their level of participation and engagement.

Please arrive around 7:00 pm as we will begin right at 7:30 pm.

Love Exchange $149 single $249 for pairs

About Your Facilitators:

Monique Darling - Awaken As Love Lead Facilitator

Author of 'Beyond Cuddle Party' and workshop facilitator extraordinaire, Monique was born on this planet with the unique gifts and soul calling to help you remember how magnificent you truly are! Messages from your ancestors, your spirit guides, your body, nature, your soul, are all called upon and utilized so that you walk away knowing how deeply the cosmos loves you for YOU, exactly as you are, so you can begin to love and accept yourself too.

YOU, you are the gift!

Monique has led over 3000 workshops in the past 18 years. She has taught at colleges across the US including Yale. She has been featured on TLC and The Dr’s as well as various radio shows, podcasts and magazines across the globe. She specializes in helping others reclaim their power and natural sensuality by transmuting fear and repression into courage, self-love and freedom. Her primary purpose is helping folks bring out their vulnerability, energetic embodiment and fearless relating.

Peter Petersen has been teaching qigong for 18 years and has been a certified massage therapist for the last 16 years. Peter has been teaching in health clubs, hospitals, retirement villas, and several different wellness/spa resorts in Mexico and the United States, such as Rancho La Puerta, Mayacamas Ranch, and Present Moment Retreat.

Peter is also a personal wellness coach. This Qigong practice helps people ground themselves into their “now” to increase their present moment awareness of their behaviors, and find simple solutions to problematic habits such as: eating, moving, negative thinking, and sleeping. The result of this tool box of healthy information is that clients become their own health advocate and regain a sense of stability, peace, and well-being into their everyday lives

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