Pressure to perform sucks.

YOU FEEL LIKE:

1. Your penis is betraying you
2. Something is wrong with you
3. Your sexuality is broken
4. You’re not normal but everyone else is having amazing sex
5. You're letting your partner down
6. You're less of a person
7. You can't talk to anybody about this
8. You've tried thinking about baseball and global warming, but it takes you out of the experience
9. You don't want to take pills, because you should be able to figure this out on your own
10. Maybe life would be better if you took sex off the table

BUT...

YOU FEEL BRAVE & CURIOUS, AND YOU WANT TO:

1. Be desired and accepted exactly as you are
2. Feel normal
3. Experience compassion for what you're going through
4. Figure out your next steps

BECAUSE ULTIMATELY YOU WANT TO:

1. Last as long as you want
2. Deeply satisfy your partner every time
3. Confidently initiate sex

GATHER WITH OTHER MEN AND PEOPLE WITH PENISES TO:

1. SHARE and DISCUSS the realities of wanting to last longer during sex
2. RECEIVE support and reflections on what's worked and what hasn't
3. BUILD a stronger culture of authentic expectations by hearing what's normal for you and others
4. Get ACTIONABLE ADVICE from a sex expert who won't judge or shame you

CAMERAS CAN BE ON OR OFF. TRAUMA INFORMED. GENDER NEUTRAL and INCLUSIVE LANGUAGE. INTERSECTIONAL. Please share your access needs.

HERE'S WHAT YOU CAN EXPECT:

>> 6:00 - 6:10 pm An introduction to Daniela and our call agreements and format

>> 6:10 - 6:20 pm Once around the group with an invitation to share your name and pronouns and experiences, topics, or questions you have

>> 6:20 - 6:45 pm Open conversation on what's been brought up, sharing as little or as much as you like

>> 6:45 - 6:55 pm Option for coaching and action steps to explore

>> 6:55 - 7:00 pm Recap and closing

ABOUT YOUR FACILITATOR:

Daniela (she/they) is a trauma-informed, certified Tantra Coach and Sex and Intimacy Coach for couples and individuals as well as a speaker and writer practicing somatic abolitionism and appropriated tantra.

Named one of the ten best Sex and Intimacy Coaches of 2023 by DatingAdvice.com, she supports couples and individuals to experience more sex and deeper connection with themselves and with their partner(s) without pushing before their body is ready, feeling weak, or performing.

With over twenty-four years of experience coaching people one-on-one and teaching in college classrooms and wellness spaces, she curates exercises and practices steeped in somatic attachment theory, neuroscience, embodied conflict resolution, trauma resolution, and modern psychology and inspired by ancient tantric and taoist wisdom.

Daniela is a queer cisgendered woman raced as white born in the Bay Area as well as a biological and transnational adoptive parent of three.

She lives and works as an uninvited guest on occupied Ohlone land that’s currently known as San Jose, California in the United States.

For her, nothing is more important than connection.

Website: DanielaStevens.com

Social Media: @danielastevensnow