LEARN PENIS & PUSSY MASSAGE

Say yes to finally exploring tantric massage with your partner through offering and receiving this erotic, healing, spiritual practice in eight 90-minute private and online classes you schedule so you can safely surrender and experience pressure-free pleasure...and offer it to your partner in return.

YOU WANT TO:

1. Experience a deep sexual and spiritual connection
2. Be an amazing and confident lover
3. Safely surrender during sexual intimacy
4. Feel absolutely NO PRESSURE to perform
5. Give your partner deep pleasure and multiple orgasms
6. Know bliss and ecstasy
7. Explore sacred sexuality

TO GET THERE, FIRST KNOW THIS IS TANTRIC MASSAGE THAT IS:

TRAUMA INFORMED:

This means we go slow and at the pace of your body. By learning and recognizing triggers as well as how to settle and soothe on your own and with your partner, we build safety, trust, and offer opportunities to heal.

GENDER NEUTRAL & INCLUSIVE:

This means you won't hear anything about "divine masculine" and "divine feminine" or binary genders. We honor people's pronouns and expression as well as the body parts we're born with, surgically embrace, and energetically embody.

INTERSECTIONAL:

This means we acknowledge the systems of suppression (like race, class, assigned gender and roles) that affect our sex, love, and relationships as well as our identity. We work with the myths, violence, and trauma of the culture we've been born into AND claim and celebrate our worthiness despite them.

PLEASE SHARE YOUR ACCESS NEEDS:

This means we honor neurodiverse, chronically ill, hard of hearing folk, and those with visible and invisible disabilities. We make captions available and strive to make the space accessible and inclusive by being online and offering adjustments and options.

THIS IS FOR:

1. Committed couples at any stage who want to go deeper in their mental, emotional, sexual, and spiritual connection with themselves and with one another
2. Queer and trans folk who want to experience sacred sexuality outside heteronormative, binary paradigms of "sacred masculinity" and "sacred femininity" with gender neutral terms and expansive, inclusive language
3. White people and non-Indian-subcontinent folk who want to explore a tradition within more modern contexts (some versions have always been meant as a practice within modern life) with appreciation instead of appropriation
4. People who have sexual trauma history, have grown up in religion, or exist in our rape culture-enabling society who want to learn a trauma-informed approach to tantric massage and practice

THIS EXPERIENCE INCLUDES:

1. Eight 90-minute sessions within three months scheduled around your availability and from the comfort of your own home so your skills don't stay in some tropical hideway...they're living and breathing in your bedroom
2. Guided videos and guided audios for ongoing learning and exploration after you've completed the course so you don't have to remember everything
3. Simple, step-by-step guidance for Sacred Setup & Preparation to make your space feel special so you can transform ordinary into extraordinary every week on your own
4. The accessible and easy to understand 3-3-3 Tantra Intro for a foundation in tantric philosophies, principles, and practices so you can begin to feel grounded in what tantra is about before practicing tantra
5. My Playful Holding Space Training for learning how to hold mental and emotional space for your partner before exploring physical and sexual space-holding with the Tantric Massage Setup & Positioning
6. Learning and sensitizing to the strong reactions of stress cycles: Fight, flight, freeze, and fawn and how to feel them from within your own body and track to see if they're happening in your partner's along with a Sexual Grounding Practice to return to any time the person who is receiving tantric massage seems to be having a strong reaction
7. Periodic reminders to check in with your Turn On Signaling System for sensitizing to your turn-on changing and learning what to do if you want to slow things down or speed things up so the experience isn't over prematurely or end with disappointment
8. Naming what feels good through a Sensational Presence Practice and working with Four Sexual Feedback Questions for more pleasure without getting defensive or walling off inside
9. To invite blood flow to get turned on more, get hard and stay hard, you'll learn the External Pelvis Dearmoring Process for tightness and tension in the body when you're offering and receiving to release what's holding you back from experiencing more and deeper pleasure as well as Loving & Caring Genital Touch
10. Inviting pleasure in the body with different External Genital Strokes and Penetrating Pleasure Guidance for vaginal g-spot, cervical, a-spot, and p-spot orgasms as well as prostate massage and anal exploration
11. AND SO MUCH MORE....

ABOUT YOUR FACILITATOR:

Daniela (she/they) is a trauma-informed, certified Tantric Sex Coach as well as Sex and Intimacy Coach for couples and individuals as well as a speaker and writer practicing somatic abolitionism and appropriated tantra.

Named one of the ten best Sex and Intimacy Coaches of 2023 by DatingAdvice.com, she supports couples and individuals to experience more sex and deeper connection with themselves and with their partner(s) without pushing before their body is ready, feeling weak, or performing.

With over twenty-four years of experience coaching people one-on-one and teaching in college classrooms and wellness spaces, she curates exercises and practices steeped in somatic attachment theory, neuroscience, embodied conflict resolution, trauma resolution, and modern psychology and inspired by ancient tantric and taoist wisdom.

Daniela is a queer cisgendered woman raced as white born in the Bay Area as well as a biological and transnational adoptive parent of three.

She lives and works as an uninvited guest on occupied Ohlone land that’s currently known as San Jose, California in the United States.

For her, nothing is more important than connection.

Email: daniela@danielastevens.com

Website: DanielaStevens.com

Social Media: @danielastevensnow