Protocols and Rituals in Everyday Dynamics

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ONLINE: Protocols and Rituals in Everyday Dynamics

with girl lily

1/31 6pm Pacific/9pm Eastern

Advance tickets required–– get them here!

RSVP on FetLife to let your friends know that you're coming!

This will be a live, online class offered through Zoom. No on-site tickets will be available.

Interested in pursuing a High Protocol dynamic but don’t know how to incorporate it into your everyday life? Want to add more rituals to your bedroom dynamic? Whether you are brand new to D/s or have been living M/s for years, this class will get you well on your way to being more Pro at Protocols! This class will go over the what, when, how, and why of protocols and rituals. We’ll uncover how you may have more than you realized and also discuss tips on how to expand those into something bigger, deeper, or more connective. Learn how to navigate kinky rituals in vanilla spaces and add in new protocols that fit the busiest of lives. Whether you are an experienced kinkster or a newbie dabbling for the first time, there’s room in your dynamic for it all.


With over twelve years in the lifestyle, lilybeast (she/her) is a submissive, brat in a 24/7 primal High Protocol dynamic. As a service-oriented individual, lily focuses on culinary and companion service, using skills gained from two decades in customer service and hospitality. An active and engaged member of the Southern California kinky community, lily is a staff member of the SoCalKink Discord, an admin in a twenty thousand strong brat group on Facebook, and runs a monthly kinky book club. Outside of kink, lily goes to therapy, loves cooking, and enjoys taking time to read in the tub.


$15 - $35 in advance. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford.

We offer a sliding scale, so that cost is not a barrier to attendance.

The regular ticket is $25. This is what most people should pay.

The $15 ticket is offered for those for whom the $25 ticket would be a barrier to participation. If $25 is too much, we take your word for it! Just pay $15.

Have a great salary? Feeling generous? Paying at the $35 level allows us to make the discounted ticketing available to others who need it.

So - that's it! Choose the level you can comfortably afford.

Wicked Grounds VIP members get discounted/free tickets! Find out more at!


This will be a live, online class offered through Zoom. To participate, you may need to download the free, basic version of the Zoom app before the class! This class will not be recorded and is not available for later viewing.

Zoom now provides closed captioning which will be available for this event.