Make a Scene with Mistress Viola

Explore how to step into your power, plan and structure BDSM scenes, and build anticipation to melt your partner's mind.

When coaching individuals and couples just starting out in BDSM, we often hear the same concerns. Practicing technique with toys and learning hard skills is one thing, but new kinksters are often unsure how to plan and orchestrate a BDSM scene, what to do, what to say, and how to create epic experiences for both parties.

After many years of fielding questions about the world of BDSM, Mistress Viola Parker has put together this online class to answer many of your sexy, burning questions on topics including:

1. Safety - "Won't talking about it all beforehand ruin the moment?" Negotiation, pre-discussion, safewords, aftercare, debriefing, communicating shared desires and expectations.
2. Scenebuilding - "What if I blank on WHAT TO DO during playtime?" Intention, goal feelings, planning, preparation.
3. Containers - "What is a scene?" Rituals, structure, building anticipation, how to create the element of surprise in consensual play.

Mistress Viola has been organizing kink events, creating community, and coaching newbies for 15 years. There will be opportunities for Q&A. Come with your questions ready!

Who is this class for?

This class is for BDSM enthusiasts (aspiring or experienced) looking to expand their skills. We welcome anyone looking to connect with their dominance or submission regardless of experience level -- but the discussion will be aimed at switches, tops, and dominants seeking confidence and tips for creating scenes. All genders, sexualities, and experience levels are welcome.

This is an online class. A recording will be available to all ticket holders for 30 days. This class is for adults 18+ only.

Reduced price tickets are available to BIPOC folks as well as those experiencing financial hardship. Please reach out to info@subrosapdx.com to request a discount code. Full price tickets help allow us to offer these discounts. Joining our Patreon also supports our ability to offer community discounts.

cover art by Darrion Bowen.

About Viola Parker

Mistress Viola is a kinky queer BDSM obsessive with 15 years of professional domination under her garters. She has been doing couples coaching as well as teaching kink classes and experiential workshops for eight years. Her popular monthly play party 50 Shades of STFU at Sanctuary fueled femmes and kinky queer energy from 2017 to 2025. She is fiercely devoted to fostering kink community and empowering folks to embrace their inner desires. You can read more about Mistress Viola at www.mistressviola.com.