Monthly Roundtable for Polyamory/Non-Monogamy

The Brooklyn Poly Roundtable is a monthly discussion-centered, community gathering for those who want to learn about and share experiences/perspectives on topics related to non-monogamy and polyamory. This month's topic is:

Being "Out" as Poly

How “out” are you about being polyamorous, and how do you decide when, where, and with whom to share that part of your life?

In this roundtable, we’ll explore the layered experience of being out as poly, and what visibility means in different contexts. From family and friends to workplaces and social media, the decision to share or to keep private our relationship choices can bring both connection and vulnerability.

Being open might offer a sense of freedom, affirmation, or deeper intimacy with others. It can also bring discomfort, disconnection, or criticism, especially in environments where non-monogamy is misunderstood or stigmatized. What factors shape these choices, and how have they changed over time?

We’ll reflect together on:

• What influences our choices around visibility and disclosure

• The benefits and risks of being publicly out about non-monogamy

• The communication strategies we’ve used—and what we’ve learned from them

• Navigating societal assumptions and judgments

• The role of privacy across different relationships and life settings

• How our choices affect not just us, but our partners and communities

Whether you’re fully out, more private, or still figuring it out, you’re warmly welcome in the conversation.

Logistics:

1. A couple of important reminders:
2. We kindly ask for a suggested $10 donation to help us cover room rental.
3. We can bring food/drinks to share (yay!), but please keep in mind the event is still centered on the discussion vs. being a potluck.

Approximate Timeline:

• Doors Open - 7 PM

• 7-7:30 - Arrive, get your name tags, say hi, place your drinks/snacks on the table

• 7:30-9 - Group discussion

• 9-10 - Mingle and socialize (and help us clean up the space ;))

PLEASE NOTE: This meetup is about creating a safe space for sharing ideas and experiences and having productive and compassionate discussions with old and new friends. It is not a cruising or pickup event, so please do not come with those expectations or intentions as they can make folks uncomfortable and feel unsafe. Help us keep this a safe and supportive space!

Our group values ethics, inclusion, growth and compassion as a means to support each of our unique journeys in developing non-traditional relationships. Please be prepared to bring those values, along with an awareness of the fundamental importance of consent and a respect for all others if you attend our events.

We look forward to welcoming everyone interested or curious about non-monogamy and polyamory :) See you at the Brooklyn Society for Ethical Culture (269 4th Avenue, between Garfield and 1st Street)!

In community,

Marco and Clara