Monthly Roundtable for Polyamory/Non-Monogamy

The Brooklyn Poly Roundtable is a monthly discussion-centered, community gathering for those who want to learn about and share experiences/perspectives on topics related to non-monogamy and polyamory. This month's topic is:

Relationship Styles and Decision-Making in Non-Monogamy

This month, we’re exploring the interplay between relationship styles and how we make decisions in designing our polyamorous/non-monogamous life. We’ll look at different approaches (such as solo-poly, couple-centric polyamory, relationship anarchy etc) and consider how each shapes long-term planning, time management, and the texture of our relationships.

By decision-making, we mean the way choices are made in a relationship, whether about everyday logistics like scheduling, deeper agreements around boundaries and intimacy, or bigger life moves like relocation or living arrangements. Some people prefer making decisions independently, others value collaboration or consensus, and some follow agreements that give certain voices more weight in specific areas.

We’ll also dive into questions of compatibility: What happens when people with different styles date each other? How do expectations, priorities, and boundaries align (or clash) across these approaches?

Together, we’ll reflect on why someone might choose a couple-centric style versus a more individual-centered one, and how those choices ripple into relationships with others who hold different models. As always, bring your experiences, questions, and curiosity!

Approximate Timeline:

• Doors Open - 7 PM

• 7-7:30 - Arrive, get your name tags, say hi, place your drinks/snacks on the table

• 7:30-9 - Group discussion

• 9-10 - Mingle and socialize (and help us clean up the space ;))

PLEASE NOTE: This meetup is about creating a safe space for sharing ideas and experiences and having productive and compassionate discussions with old and new friends. It is not a cruising or pickup event, so please do not come with those expectations or intentions as they can make folks uncomfortable and feel unsafe. Help us keep this a safe and supportive space!

Our group values ethics, inclusion, growth and compassion as a means to support each of our unique journeys in developing non-traditional relationships. Please be prepared to bring those values, along with an awareness of the fundamental importance of consent and a respect for all others if you attend our events.

We look forward to welcoming everyone interested or curious about non-monogamy and polyamory :) See you at the Brooklyn Society for Ethical Culture (269 4th Avenue, between Garfield and 1st Street)!

In community,

Clara & Marco