Monthly Roundtable for Polyamory/Non-Monogamy

The Brooklyn Poly Roundtable is a monthly discussion-centered, community gathering for those who want to learn about and share experiences/perspectives on topics related to non-monogamy and polyamory. This month's topic is:

The Multiple Facets of Jealousy

Jealousy is one of the most intense and multi-layered emotions we encounter in non-monogamy. It’s often dismissed as insecurity or something to “work through,” but more often than not, it’s a whole emotional landscape, one that might hold fear, sadness, anger, longing, grief… and sometimes even desire.

At its core, jealousy emerges in response to a real or imagined threat to a meaningful connection, a shift that touches our need for safety, belonging, or significance. It can stir up old attachment wounds, nervous system activation, cultural baggage, or a deep sense of “this isn’t fair.” And sometimes, it surprises us with a charge of energy or even erotic aliveness.

In this roundtable, we’ll explore jealousy in all its complexity, holding space for each other without judgment or pressure to fix it. We’ll reflect on what this emotion has looked like in our lives, share what’s helped us along the way, and make space for all the messy, meaningful layers it can carry. Whether you’re currently navigating jealousy, supporting a partner through it, or simply curious to understand it more deeply, I really hope you can join us!

Approximate Timeline:

• Doors Open - 7 PM

• 7-7:30 - Arrive, get your name tags, say hi, place your drinks/snacks on the table

• 7:30-9 - Group discussion

• 9-10 - Mingle and socialize (and help us clean up the space ;))

PLEASE NOTE: This meetup is about creating a safe space for sharing ideas and experiences and having productive and compassionate discussions with old and new friends. It is not a cruising or pickup event, so please do not come with those expectations or intentions as they can make folks uncomfortable and feel unsafe. Help us keep this a safe and supportive space!

Our group values ethics, inclusion, growth and compassion as a means to support each of our unique journeys in developing non-traditional relationships. Please be prepared to bring those values, along with an awareness of the fundamental importance of consent and a respect for all others if you attend our events.

We look forward to welcoming everyone interested or curious about non-monogamy and polyamory :) See you at the Brooklyn Society for Ethical Culture (269 4th Avenue, between Garfield and 1st Street)!

In community,

Clara