Pitch Your AWESOME OPEN Ecosystem Person

3–5 minute live presentations

This is a dating-and-connection event for open / poly / non-monogamous folks who believe in abundance, celebration, and introducing great people with love.

Instead of pitching yourself, participants pitch someone wonderful in their ecosystem — a partner, meta, beloved, or collaborator — sharing why others would be lucky to connect with them.

Apply to Pitch Your Person(s) Here

Big Compersion Energy

This event is rooted in joy, pride, and care. We’re practicing a culture where people are celebrated out loud by those who already know they're magic.

How It Works

• 3–5 minute pitches from current partners or ecosystem collaborators
• Pitches focus on capacity, care, and what kinds of connection are welcome
• After the pitches, people connect directly in ways that feel aligned

Audience = Essential

You do not need to be pitched to attend.

The audience is a crucial part of the process. The bigger and more diverse the audience, the more connection, resonance, and fun the event creates. Come to listen, feel inspired, and meet people.

There will be multiple ways to connect, including time to mingle, a DJ, full bar and social space beyond the pitch format.

Why This Event?

There are many partnered, reliable, open people with capacity for MORE:

More connection, more consistency, more romance, more community, more care, more belovedness.

This event centers bids for connection grounded in lived experience and mutual enthusiasm.

Who It’s For

• Open / Poly / Non-monogamous / Curious people
• All genders and gender identities
• All consensually open relating formats
• All sexual and asexual spectrum identities
• Including ACE, ARO, Partycule, Nested, Kinktacular, and beyond.

We prioritize:

• Compersion over Comparison
• Ecosystem expansion over exclusivity
• Consensual commitment to open relating
• Celebration over scarcity

Ways to Participate

• Attend as the audience
• Pitch someone you love or like a lot
• Come meet potential matches and collaborators
• Dance, socialize, and enjoy the community
• Volunteer: Help us with the event and get in for free. 5 volunteer spots available!

DJ BlackWoman

DJ BlackWoman (Nia) is an Oakland-based DJ bringing high-energy sets rooted in hip-hop, R&B, reggae, and Afrobeats. Inspired by the Bay Area’s vibrant music scene, she’s known for reading the crowd and keeping the dance floor alive. She has performed at major festivals including Hiero Day, Oaktoberfest, and Art & Soul, and has worked with artists like Mistah F.A.B., Adrian Marcel, and YoY. Get ready for a vibe that’s pure Oakland energy.

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Tickets

• Early Bird Tickets: $25
• Regular Tickets: $35
• Last Minute Tickets: $45

Financial Access Ticket - We want this experience to be accessible and we prioritize resilient identities under our NOTAFLOF initiative. Kindly reach out to us at moreismoreteam@gmail.com to request a low-income ticket if needed.

Volunteers

Volunteering is a great way to meet people, and feel involved in the community, plus you get in for free!

• Setup (2 people): 5:30pm - 7:00pm
• Door: 6:45pm - 8:00pm
• Door: 8:00pm - 9:00pm
• Cleanup (2 people): 10:00pm - 11:00pm

Big Compersion Energy

An expansive brand and collaborative ethos rooted in joy, pride, emotional safety, neuroscience skill-building and care. Big Compersion Energy encourages a culture where people in existing relationships are celebrated out loud by those that love or just really really like them already.

Find us on IG @BigCompersionEnergy

Email us at: moreismoreteam@gmail.com