Nectar - Desire Unrestrained

The Flow of the Night

1. Savor runs from 5:00 PM to 9:00 PM at Paradox
2. Nectar runs from 8:00 PM to 1:00 AM at Stopgap

Guests are welcome to attend either event or both.

Nectar is a full-scale play party centered on indulgence, longer scenes, deeper connections, and the freedom to linger on what your body and desires want most in the moment. If Savor whetted your appetite earlier in the evening, Nectar is your chance to return to what called to you and sink in fully. If you skipped Savor earlier, dessert will still be on the menu at Nectar - the menu will lean sweet, with just a glint of salt - a balance of pleasure, edge, and intimacy.

Where Savor offers a taste, Nectar is where you give in to the craving.

What to Expect at Nectar

Nectar is an AfterDark-style play party with expanded space for sensual play, alongside impact, power exchange, and other more familiar kinks. This is where you can take time to breathe, play without hurry and let your scenes unfold at a natural pace.

Whereas Savor is exploratory and contained, Nectar is expansive and immersive.

Nectar Highlights:

1. Multiple play areas designed for extended scenes
2. Expanded space for sexual, sensual, and kink-forward play
3. The familiar Stopgap environment and AfterDark rules and expectations
4. Clean, exciting, dungeon space with mood lighting, great vibes, and hot equipment.
5. Accessible playspace and social area.
6. A crowd ready to indulge rather than sample
7. Curated equipment for impact-play, rope, electro-play, sensual play, etc.
8. Stickers and wristband system to facilitate connections.
9. Dedicated social area, dungeon, sensual play areas and chill-out/cuddle area..
10. Light snacks and water provided.

Unlike Savor this is not a guided or structured experience. This is a play party and - there will not be any house tops or demos. Guests can negotiate scenes, and engage with each other as they choose within house rules and community norms. Dungeon Monitors will be present.

Those who attend Savor earlier may find themselves arriving at Nectar already knowing what they want more of; whether that’s a sensation, a style of play, a particular craving that didn’t quite get satisfied by an earlier sampler, or to just build upon connections made earlier. Others may choose to arrive fresh and dive straight into indulgence. Both paths are welcome.

Whether you are coming for a taste and staying for the indulgence. Or simply arriving hungry - Nectar awaits you.

Inclusivity & Safety:

We warmly invite and encourage individuals of all ages, races, ethnicities, gender identities, sexual orientations, and abilities to attend our event. We are committed to creating an inclusive and welcoming environment where everyone can feel safe, respected, and celebrated. Your unique identity and experiences enrich our community, and we look forward to sharing this special experience with you.

Consent and respectful behavior required. Read the event rules and consent guidelines.

Accessibility Notes

1. The entrance to the space is on the ground floor and includes lockers, vendor areas, social spaces, play areas, and two bathrooms. The basement of the venue can only be reached via stairs. There will be music playing throughout the event, and ear plugs are available for free at the front desk. There are colored lights in use throughout the venue, including rotating “party lights” for ambiance. Cell phones are prohibited from being used in the venue and must be stored; however, you may speak to a host about reasonable accommodations if needed for things such as continuous glucose monitoring.
2. COVID-19 Safety Measures:
3. All guests MUST take a rapid test on the day of the event, before arriving, and write the date on the test or immediately next to the test.
4. Take a photo of the negative test & show it to the door guard when you arrive.
5. We will have a limited number of tests for sale at $25 each in case anyone is unable to pretest.
6. Refusal to test is not cause for a refund

Dress Code:

Dress in your version of kinky and/or sexy - whatever makes you feel like you are confident and ready to have some serious fun. You don’t have to be experienced - newcomers welcome. Please be mindful that you might have to wait in line outside (it may be cold) and that you are welcome to arrive in regular clothes and then change into your kinky outfit once you get inside!

Consent is Paramount

Part of our responsibility in fostering a consent culture is to provide some guidance to help prevent consent incidents from happening at our events.

Please make sure you read and understand our event rules and consent guidelines before you come to any AfterDark event. By coming to an event you acknowledge that you understand the rules and agree to abide by them. If you have any questions or need clarification on any of our rules or guidelines please contact us before coming to an event.

Any consent concerns can be confidentially given to the hosts at the event or by email at info@afterdark-events.com.