Non-Monogamy Discussion Group Vancouver -April 2026

Welcome to the Non-Monogamy Discussion Group Vancouver! We will be meeting the THIRD Monday of the month at Cross and Crows Books . Bring your ideas, questions and opinions!

April Topic: Monogamous/Non-monogamous Partnerships (Monopoly!)

What happens when one person wants monogamy and the other doesn’t? Mono/polyam relationships sit right at that intersection.

For some, this dynamic feels like a natural fit. For others, it can bring up tension, mismatched expectations, or questions around fairness, autonomy, and fulfillment. There’s no single way to navigate it, and no guaranteed roadmap.

This month, we’re focusing on the lived monogamous and Non-monogamous relationships: whether you’re in one, have been in one, are considering it or are partnered with someone who is in one.

Some questions we may explore:

-What draws people to mono/polyam dynamics, and what makes them work (or not)?

-How can partners navigate this structure?

-How can jealousy, compersion, or imbalance show up in these relationships?

-What is it like to date someone who is in a mono/non-mono relationship?

-What’s the difference between being monogamous and being polyamorous but currently only dating one person? How do intention, identity, and agreement shape that distinction?

This is a peer to peer discussion to dive into the good, the challenging, and everything in between without assuming one model is “better” than another.

The Specifics:

Date: April 20, 2026

Time: 7:00pm - 9:00pm

(Doors open at 7pm for this event and we start the discussion at 7:30pm)

Where: Cross and Crows Books - 2836 Commercial Drive

Cost: by donation ($2-5) or shopping at the bookstore! This covers our rental fee.

Who can attend: Those who practice non-monogamy or are curious about it - We ask that if you engage in our space that your partners have knowledge of your practice or interest.

Health/Safety: Please do not attend if you are sick (even if it's not covid). I will bring my air filter for the space. Stay vaccinated. Please leave your perfumes/body spray at home.

We will be continuing the no mandatory masks for 2026 . See pinned post in the feature section of the group.

Accessibility: Technically a wheelchair accessible entrance (has a slope) but not a washroom. Semi low stim - you can hear the sky train pass. The book store is closed to the public but staff are there so event attendees can shop. Variety of chair styles/sizes available.

What to expect during this event

7:00pm - Door open - show up anytime between 7pm and 7:30pm to find yourself a chair, browse the book store (you can shop) and settle in.

7:30pm - Discussion begins

-Read the Norms

-Introductions & Ice Breaker question.

-April Topic: Monogamous/Non-monogamous Partnerships (Monopoly!)

10 min break

-Announcements & Discussion cont.

9pm Wrap-up - check out at the bookstore or order a book for pick up.

9:10pm You don’t have to go home but you can’t stay here.