Non-Monogamy Discussion Group Vancouver - Feb. 2026

Welcome to the Non-Monogamy Discussion Group Vancouver! We will be meeting the THIRD Monday of the month at Cross and Crows Books . Bring your ideas, questions and opinions!

February Topic: Coming Out of the Non-Monogamy Closet

For many people, practicing non-monogamy comes with ongoing decisions about who we tell, how much we share, and when it feels safe or necessary to do so.

Some folks are fully out, others are selective, and some aren’t out at all - and all of those choices are valid. Family, friends, work, healthcare, and community spaces can all bring up different risks, boundaries, and emotions.

This month we’ll be talking about what “coming out” looks like in non-monogamous lives, and how we navigate visibility and privacy.

Some questions we may explore:

• What does coming out mean to you?

• How do you decide who to tell - and who not to?

• What are the benefits and risks of being out in different areas of your life?

• How do you handle different levels of outness between partners?

• When does privacy feel protective vs. limiting?

This discussion is an invitation to reflect on safety, boundaries, authenticity, and the many ways people navigate being - or not being - out as non-monogamous.

The Specifics:

Date: February 16, 2026

Time: 7:00pm - 9:00pm

(Doors open at 7pm for this event and we start the discussion at 7:30pm)

Where: Cross and Crows Books - 2836 Commercial Drive

Cost: by donation ($2-5) or shopping at the bookstore!

Who can attend: Those who practice non-monogamy or are curious about it - We ask that if you engage in our space that your partners have knowledge of your practice or interest.

Health/Safety: Please do not attend if you are sick (even if it's not covid). I will bring my air filter for the space. Stay vaccinated. Please leave your perfumes at home.

We will be continuing the no mandatory masks for 2026 . See pinned post in the feature section of the group.

Accessibility: Technically a wheelchair accessible entrance (has a slope) but not a washroom. Semi low stim - you can hear the sky train pass. The book store is closed to the public but staff are there so event attendees can shop. Variety of chair styles/sizes available.

What to expect during this event

7:00pm - Door open - show up anytime between 7pm and 7:30pm to find yourself a chair, browse the book store (you can shop) and settle in.

7:30pm - Discussion begins

-Read the Norms

-Introductions & Ice Breaker question.

-Coming Out of the Non-Monogamy Closet

10 min break

-Announcements & Discussion cont.

9pm Wrap-up - check out at the bookstore or order a book for pick up.

9:10pm You don’t have to go home but you can’t stay here.