[CANCELED] Nocturnal Play Paw-ty

  • Hosted by Spark Luscious Events
  • San Jose, CA -
  • 17 people on the list-

Get ready for a wild time at Nocturnal Play Pawty! Whether you're a playful pup, a feisty feline, or a graceful pony, there's a spot for every animal and handler in this adventure-packed event.

Owners and handlers, remember to keep your paw-some friend on the leash! Take advantage of our Handler Service and Playground when you need some time away from your energetic friends.

Biting without consent is NOT allowed.

Check out our guidelines to learn more details about this event!

Date: 18th Aug 2023 (Friday)

Time: Friday night 8:30 pm - 1:30 am

Location: Downtown San Jose

You will receive the address the day before the event via email

Dress Code: Bring your ears, your tail, your paws/hoof, and other accessories if you have them! If you are an owner, remember to keep your paw-friend on the leash! Put a muzzle on them if you must.

Dress Code is not mandatory


9 pm - 10:30 pm: Pet shop & Handler service

Calling all the single paw-dies out there: Enlist yourself at the shop, or sign up for our House Handler. Owner/Handler who needs a break from your energetic friend could take advantage of this service too!

10 pm - 11:30 pm: Playground

Socialize with your fluffy friends at the playground. Biting without consent is NOT allowed!

10:30 pm - 11 pm: Pet Paw-rade

Wag your tails, purr with delight, or prance with grace as you show off your furry, feathery, or scaley alter ego to the crowd!


Paid what you can — Accessibility Ticket

USD 25

General Registration — Tier 1 Ticket

USD 45

Supporter 🙏 — Tier 2 Ticket

USD 65

Benefactor 🥺💕🙌 — Tier 3 Ticket

USD 85

Registration close at noon on 17th August

  • Why do we have a sliding scale for our tickets?
  • While we want to make sure our ticket is affordable to the general public, we wish to cover our expenses as well as be able to expand & host different types of kink events.

Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford. Your support is appreciated and will help us keep running events! 🙌🏻

Dress code

Bring your ears, your tail, your paws/hoof, and other accessories if you have them! If you are an owner, remember to keep your paw-friend on the leash!

Dress Code is not mandatory

The venue is located in Downtown San Jose, please dress appropriately - street-legal clothing in public areas. You may revive your true kinky self once you are inside the venue.

We will have signs to indicate "Fetish wear behind these doors ONLY."

The Venue

Play Space

An open play space to fit all of your passionate & kinky scenes! Part of the space is designated for Shibari/rope bondage scenes. We will have numerous hard points as well as a velvet mat for floor work.

Social Area

Want to catch up with your friends while enjoying some snacks? This is where you should hang out 💬

Cuddle Puddle

A room dedicated to cuddles, huggles, and aftercare 🧸

What should I bring?

Your kinky self and your toy/rope bag 💜 Remember to pack for you/your bottom's aftercare needs. Bring your stuffies/blankie to make yourself comfy! We will have snacks, drinks, and space to cuddle.

General Rules

Any violation of the rules might result in a hard ban from our future events. We might also share the incident report with other kink groups, especially in case of severe consent violations.

DM & Hosts (on duty) will be wearing a bright neon green harnesses.

  1. Consent matters.

Ask for explicit consent before engaging in any activities with others. Always ask before touching, that goes for people and their belongings.

Only an enthusiastic YES is a yes. If the other person seems hesitant or doubtful, please take that as a “No.” and don’t ask again. You may offer future opportunities for them to reach out to you if they do change their mind. The key is: Let them come to you after the initial "No"

It is also important to clearly communicate the potential risk of the play to the best of your ability.

  1. Inclusivity is vital.

There is zero tolerance for hate speech. Help create a safe space for everyone, regardless of their role, gender, ethnicity, orientation, religion, experience, or skill level.

  1. Respect the venue.

Do not vandalize or go to closed-off areas.

Do not share details or the location of the venue with non-attendees. If someone approaches you and asks for the address, point them to @Nocturnal_Event or email

  1. Dress vanilla outside of the event area.

Be discreet. There’s a ballet studio next door and vanilla people in the street. If you wish to step outside, please at least wear a big coat over your kink wear.

We have a changing and storage room for you to transform into your kinky authentic self ✨

  1. No photos.
  2. Play responsibly.
  3. No smoking / vaping
  4. No Glitter.
  5. The DMs & Hosts are here to help, but not here to parent you.

If someone is making you uncomfortable, go to the DMs, or ask your friend to accompany you to do so. We are here to help.

While we try our best to create a safe space, we can not police everything. Please use your own judgment when vouching play partners, ask around for references, ask a lot of questions, and trust your gut if anything feels off.

Apply critical thinking. Plan for a “buddy system”. Negotiate before the party instead of doing pick-up play.

  1. If you see something, say something (to the DMs/Hosts)

We need your help to create a safe space for everyone. If you notice something that doesn't seem quite right, speak up. Or please tell our DMs or the Hosts.

In case of unfortunate events or incident reports, please DM talk to us on Fetlife @Nocturnal_Events, or e-mail

  1. If you’re unsure if it’s permitted and the rules don’t mention it, ask a DM/host.

We can’t cover every possible kink and situation. If there’s any gray area, please ask us for permission before doing it, as you would do for negotiating with a new play partner.

Play Space

  1. House Safeword is “SAFEWORD”
  2. No phone allowed in the Play Space.
  3. Keep the space clean.

If you are using the furniture or mats, make sure to wipe them with cleaning spray before AND after your scenes. We also provide disposable sheets and waterproof pads.

  1. Make sure to clean up after your scene.
  2. Check for Glow Stick before approaching others for conversation.

No glow stick = Do not initiate a conversation with me

Red glow stick = Do not ask me for pick-up play, but I'm open to conversation.

Green glow stick = Open to conversation & potential pick-up play

When you are in the Play Space or Aftercare room, wear a glow stick on your wrist if you are open for conversation. Meanwhile, only initiate conversations with those who are wearing a glow stick. text: Details on our Glow Stick System)

  1. Do not interrupt other’s scene.

If you see something that you suspect is unsafe, talk to a DM or a Host.

  1. If you are not playing, stay outside of the play zones (marked by white tape)

If you are not in a scene, or your scene isn’t starting within 15 mins, please don’t hoard the play stations.

  1. You may move the furniture within the play zone.

Ask a DM for help if you needed.

  1. Do not lock shackles or tie people to furniture.
  2. We have a hard ban on breath play, sharp play, blood play, knife play, fire play, golden shower/scat play, and "full" (penetrative) sexual intercourse.

While a big flame is not allowed, we do allow lit candles for wax play. When in doubt, ask a DM or a Host.

Impact Play

  1. Do not aim to draw blood, as blood play is not allowed.
  2. If you are planning to use single tails or other long, whippy toys, please clear the area before the scene. Notify the DMs so they keep people away.

Shibari / Rope Bondage

  1. Only suspend from designated hard points.

Bring your own (graded) suspension gear.

There will be some puzzle mats provided for your shibari/rope bondage scenes. You can also bring your own mats/blankets.

Wrestling / Rough Body Play

  1. Take off your jewelry. Especially if they were sharp.
  2. Everyone must stay on their knees or lower at all times.
  3. Lay down puzzle mats or other soft padding for your scene.

We are providing some puzzle mats for your scenes. You can also bring your own mats/blankets. Be mindful of where you set up, and avoid the social area and doorway as people might be walking through a lot. Notify the DMs so they know to keep people away.

Wax Play

  1. You may use a pouring pot or a maximum of two lit candles for each scene. Please cover the floor and furniture with puzzle mats & disposable sheets to prevent mess. Be aware of splashing wax.

Group Scene

  1. Make sure to negotiate clearly who is involved BEFORE the scene.
  2. Do not ask to join an on-going group scene.
  3. Watch from a distance (outside of the play zone). If they want you to join in, they will invite you.

Sexual Play

  1. Penis-in-vagina, penis-in-anus, and pegging are not allowed.

While we do not allow “home-base” sexual play — "full" (penetrative) sexual intercourse, you may explore your sexuality with insertable toys, your all-powerful hands and your oral cavity.

  1. Lay down as many absorbent pads as you need under the bottom and your used toys, or wherever your body fluid might touch.
  2. NO ONE wants to touch or step on your body fluid.
  3. PLEASE clean your rectum at home before anal play.
  4. No one wants to smell your shit :< It’s not sexy (to most people)

For a quick summary...

🚫 Penis in vagina

🚫 Penis in anus

🚫 Pegging (from all genders, to all holes.) Using a strap on or holding any insertables and thrusting with your hip = pegging.

✅ Anal toys (plugs, hooks, dildos, beads, speculum etc.)

✅ Insertable toys in vagina (dildos, speculum, vibrator etc.)

✅ Fingering (in whichever hole)

✅ Oral sex

✅ “Outside” stimulation: Hand jobs, Hitachi, slapping, rubbing etc.

If you made a mess on the carpet/sofa, there will be a $500 fine (to the venue.)

Other Play

You can enjoy exploring most types of power exchange / BDSM / Fetish play as long as everyone involved consents and is risk-aware.

We have a hard ban on breath play, sharp/blood play, knife play, fire play, golden shower/scat play, and "full" (penetrative) sexual intercourse.

If you are not sure we allow the type of kink you want to explore at our events, or you need special accommodation/set up for your scene, please contact the Host @Nocturnal_Events BEFORE the event.

See our more detailed guidelines to plan your scenes.

Covid & Health Policy

  1. Mask is recommended, especially in the social area, but not required.
  2. Being vaccinated with at least the basic vaccine is a must.
  3. Please take a home test (antigen rapid test) on the day of the party. During check-in, you will have to show a photo of your test result, with the date, time & your preferred name written on/near the test card.
  4. If you feel sick, stay home.

When in doubt, email

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