Non-Monogamy Discussion Group Vancouver - February Discussion - Introductions

Welcome to the Non-Monogamy Discussion Group Vancouver! We will be meeting the THIRD Monday of the month at Cross and Crows Books . Bring your ideas, questions and opinions! 

The Specifics:

Date: Feb.17, 2025 

Time: 7:00pm - 9:00pm

(Doors open at 7pm for this event and we start the discussion at 7:30pm) W

here: Cross and Crows Books - 2836 Commercial Drive

Cost: by donation ($2-5) or shopping at the bookstore! 

Who can attend: Everyone is welcome - We ask that if you engage in our space that your partners have knowledge of your practice. 

Health/Safety: Please do not attend if you are sick (even if it's not covid). I will bring my air filter for the space. Stay vaccinated. Please leave your perfumes at home. We are doing a trail of no mandatory masks for the first three months of 2025. Please see the 2025 update post.

Accessibility: Technically a wheelchair accessible entrance (has a slope) but not a washroom. Semi low stim - you can hear the sky train pass . The book store is closed for our event. Variety of chair styles/sizes available. 

What to expect during this event 

7:00pm - Door open, find yourself a chair, browse the book store (you can shop) and settle in. 

7:30pm - Discussion begins

-Read the Norms 

-Introductions & Ice Breaker

-Topic - Introductions - Meeting your metamours, the family and polycule. 

10 min break

-Announcements & Discussion cont. 

8:50pm  Wrap-up - unstructured social time

9:10pm You don’t have to go home but you can’t stay here. 

Topic: Introductions - Meeting Your Metamour, The Family and Polycule

As a non-monogamous person, introducing your existing partner(s) to a new dating partner, as well as to your family, kids, or polycule, can be both exciting and nerve-wracking. 

While it’s thrilling to share your partners with someone new, it’s important to recognize that your excitement may not always align with the comfort levels of your existing partner(s) or your new partner. 

How can you navigate these introductions in a way that fosters openness and respect for everyone involved? Let’s share strategies and discuss how to set yourself up for success when bringing your partners together.

Potential Discussion Questions

-What steps can you take to ensure that both your existing partner(s) and your new partner feel comfortable during introductions?

-How do you manage differing levels of comfort between partners when meeting someone new?

-What are some signs that an introduction has gone well, and how do you assess that everyone involved feels good? 

-What are some common mistakes to avoid when introducing partners within a polycule?

-In your experience, what has been the most successful way to foster trust and comfort during these introductions?

If you have any questions please feel free to DM me directly. This is not a hookup or dating event.