Non-Monogamy Discussion Group Vancouver - July 2025

Welcome to the Non-Monogamy Discussion Group Vancouver! We will be meeting the THIRD Monday of the month at Cross and Crows Books . Bring your ideas, questions and opinions!

The Specifics:

Date: July 21, 2025

Time: 7:00pm - 9:00pm

(Doors open at 7pm for this event and we start the discussion at 7:30pm)

Where: Cross and Crows Books - 2836 Commercial Drive

Cost: by donation ($2-5) or shopping at the bookstore!

Who can attend: Everyone is welcome - We ask that if you engage in our space that your partners have knowledge of your practice.

Health/Safety: Please do not attend if you are sick (even if it's not covid). I will bring my air filter for the space. Stay vaccinated. Please leave your perfumes at home.

We will be continuing the no mandatory masks for the rest of 2025. See pinned post in the feature section of the group.

Accessibility: Technically a wheelchair accessible entrance (has a slope) but not a washroom. Semi low stim - you can hear the sky train pass. The book store is closed to the public but staff are there so event attendees can shop. Variety of chair styles/sizes available.

What to expect during this event

7:00pm - Door open, find yourself a chair, browse the book store (you can shop) and settle in.

7:30pm - Discussion begins

-Read the Norms

-Introductions & Ice Breaker

-Topic: Dating with Intent - Building relationships on purpose

10 min break

-Announcements & Discussion cont.

9pm Wrap-up - check out at the bookstore or order a book for pick up.

9:10pm You don’t have to go home but you can’t stay here.

Topic: Dating with Intent – Building Relationships on Purpose

What does it mean to approach relationships with intentionality? In a culture that often encourages us to "just see what happens," or expects us to follow a common relationship escalator, choosing to date with clear intentions can feel bold, counter culture, and empowering.

This month, we’ll explore how being intentional can shape our relationships from the start. How do we share what we’re looking for without creating pressure or rigid expectations? What does success look like when we define it for ourselves rather than following a default script?

We’ll also talk about how to communicate intentions clearly, especially when they shift or differ from a partner’s. What supports honest, aligned, and values-driven connection? How do we stay open while also being clear?

Bring your reflections, experiences, and questions as we discuss how to build relationships with purpose, clarity, and care