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North Bay Babble On: Kinky ENM, More Hands More Floggers

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Starts in 12 hours!

Tue, Sep 2, 2025 at 6:30 PM - 8:30 PM

Arlene Francis Center

99 6th Street

Santa Rosa, California, United States map

$10-20 suggested donation

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Educational

Organized by SassySeasons

26 kinksters RSVPed, including 5 friends:

Description

What happens when the values of ethical non-monogamy meet the structure and protocol of kink? In this Babble On, we’ll dive into the unique ways polyamory and kink overlap, blend, and sometimes clash. From negotiating multiple dynamics to balancing hierarchy with freedom, this is a chance to explore the deeper questions at the intersection of poly and kink.

We’ll explore the art of juggling “many loves, many leashes” and discuss questions like:

1. How do you blend the flexibility of ENM with the structure of kink dynamics?
2. What happens when your Dom/Domme isn’t your nesting partner?
3. How do polycules navigate dungeons, play parties, and kinky community events?
4. What rituals, contracts, or agreements work well in kinky ENM relationships?
5. How do jealousy, compersion, and communication show up when love, rope, and ritual all mix together?

Think of it as a chance to compare notes on living in the dungeon polycule, laugh about the chaos of multiple partners, multiple protocols, and share tips on keeping things playful while still honoring kinky structure. Whether you’re seasoned in kinky ENM or just curious about how these worlds overlap, this conversation promises insight, laughter, and maybe a few “aha” moments.

Come on out, bring your questions, and talk about the stuff, get some great new ideas, and let's build community together!

The first Tuesday of every month. It's ok to come at any time during the meeting. I mean, like come into the room...

Babble On is our monthly Topical/Themed kink-friendly, sex-positive discussion munch in the North Bay. Topics include kink community building, consent culture and safety, ethical non-monogamy, defining terminology and jargon, history of kink, tips, tools, and techniques, dealing with jealousy, bridging social media and the real world, community accountability, and whatever we decide as a group we need to discuss...