this event offers a safe, pressure-free container for authentic connection and play.
Pagan's Paradise is Hosting us for a weekend NYC Tour!!
Latihan & Tantric Temple Party w/Monique & Peter
This event is open to all genders and identities
What’s This About?
This is a sacred, inclusive space to explore your sensuality, connect deeply with yourself and others, and celebrate the full range of your vital life-force energy.
Whether you're new to this kind of gathering or a seasoned explorer, this event offers a safe, pressure-free container for authentic connection, play, and joy.
Evening Flow
Doors Open: 7:00 PM
Doors Close: 7:45PM sharp (No late entry)
Opening Circle: Arrive, connect, be seen and heard. We’ll co-create agreements and set the tone.
Latihan Practice: A gentle, guided movement meditation into the unknown—great for releasing tension and embodying presence.
Play Space Opens: After the circle, explore what “temple party” means to you. Engage, witness, cuddle, dance, kiss, rest—there’s no right or wrong way to be here.
Closing Circle: 11:45pm
What to Expect
A sensual, respectful, and welcoming environment
A mix of guided and freeform activities
Participation is always optional—observers welcome!
Open to individuals and pairs of all genders and orientations
An intentional, inclusive space especially welcoming to trans, queer, and nonbinary folks
Who Should Attend
This event is for you if:
You’re emotionally and sensually aware, or open to learning
You can communicate clearly and respect boundaries
You’re kind, compassionate, and conduct yourself with integrity
You’re curious, playful, and open-minded
No pressure to "do" anything. You can come just to connect, relax, and soak in the vibe.
What to Bring
Food and non-alcoholic beverages (for yourself or to share)
Comfortable clothing (or erotic attire—your choice!)
Toys/accessories for shared play (optional)
Protection you feel good about
An open heart, curious mind, and playful attitude
No drugs or alcohol, please. We value presence and connection.
Cost (Love Exchange)
Singles: $89 super early bird $99 early bird and $129 general
Pairs: super early bird paired is $150 early bird pair $179, and $199 general pair
Sliding scale & scholarships available for female-identified attendees—contact Monique or Peter.
You can RSVP here:
or If it's easier to pay via Venmo, PayPal, or Zelle, reach out directly. 619-305-3402 or 619-601-8852
Your Hosts
Monique Darling
Author of Beyond Cuddle Party, Monique has led nearly 3000 workshops over 13 years, including at Yale and on TLC. She helps people awaken to their sensual, spiritual selves through embodiment, play, and connection.
Learn more: www.everydaytantra.com
Peter Petersen
Qigong teacher and massage therapist with 24+ years of experience, Peter supports wellness through breath, movement, and self-awareness. His teachings help people live in their bodies with greater presence and vitality
LATE ENTRY & REFUNDS
To protect the space, late arrivals will not be admitted after doors close, and refunds or exchanges will not be provided.
No Refunds
This event is perfect and open for all experience levels. This is an event for all genders - Queer friendly. 21+ for workshops.
ABOUT PAGANS PARADISE
At Pagans Paradise we believe, in creating a welcoming, joyful space for everyone to explore connection, dive into a range of educational resources, and nurture their authentic selves.
Learn more at www.pagansparadise.com