A Night at the Dungeon for People of All Genders, All Orientations & Every Dynamic.

Obsidian is an all-genders, all-orientations play party at SOMA’s newest, most upscale kink venue - built for heat, tension, and slow-burn mischief. Singles, couples, throuples, polycules, curious first-timers, seasoned players… if you can move through the space with respect, you have a place here.

Almost anything goes within AfterDark rules. A bondage bed to stretch out your favorite troublemaker. Hardpoints waiting for rope and suspension. A St. Andrew’s cross, spanking benches, bondage tables, cages, and more, ready for impact, devotion, and deliciously bad ideas.

Capacity is limited and nights like this don’t stay quiet for long. Grab your ticket now, step into the shadows, and enjoy the darkness.

One night. Two worlds.

Red is exclusively for queer women, NBs and trans folx; and brings gritty back alley vibes to Stopgap. Obsidian is Red’s darker and more polished counterpart and carves out a space in the night for everyone else who still wants a place to get kinky, dive into their darkness, and come undone. If Red isn’t for you, then join us at Obsidian where your night awaits.

So while Red burns hot in one venue; Obsidian will smolder across the way. Capacity is tight and the room will fill fast - snag your ticket now before it vanishes into the dark.

Obsidian Highlights

Date & Time:

Saturday, December 6, 9:00 PM - 1:00 AM

Location:

1310 Mission Street, San Francisco, CA

Features:

1. A higher-end dungeon atmosphere with mood lighting, great tunes, and hot equipment.
2. ADA-standard accessible playspace and social area.
3. High quality curated equipment for impact, rope, electro-play, sensual play, etc.
4. Stickers and wristband system to facilitate connections.
5. Coat check service to help keep your belongings safe
6. Dedicated social area, dungeon, and chill-out viewing area..
7. Light snacks and water provided.

Inclusivity & Safety:

We warmly invite and encourage individuals of all ages, races, ethnicities, gender identities, sexual orientations, and abilities to attend our event. We are committed to creating an inclusive and welcoming environment where everyone can feel safe, respected, and celebrated. Your unique identity and experiences enrich our community, and we look forward to sharing this special experience with you.

Consent and respectful behavior required. Read the event rules and consent guidelines.

1. Accessibility Notes:
2. The entrance to the space is on the ground floor and is fully-accessible, including coat check, social area, play area, and two accessible all-gender ADA-compliant bathrooms. The mezzanine level above the bathrooms can only be reached via stairs. There will be music playing throughout the night, and ear plugs may be available at the front desk. There are colored lights in use throughout the venue, including moving “party lights” for ambiance. Cell phones may be prohibited from being used at the event venue and must be stored; however, you may speak to a host or DM about reasonable accommodations if needed for things such as continuous glucose monitoring..
3. COVID-19 safety measures:
4. All guests MUST take a rapid test on the day of the event, before arriving, and write the date on the test or immediately next to the test.
5. Take a photo of the negative test & show it to the door guard when you arrive.
6. We will have a limited number of tests for sale at $25 each in case anyone is unable to pretest.

Dress Code:

Dress in your version of dark shine: leather, latex, suits, gowns, harnesses, or whatever makes you feel like you were cut from the same stone. You don’t have to be experienced - you just have to be willing to listen, learn, and play nicely.

Please be mindful that you might have to wait in line outside (it may be cold) and that you are welcome to arrive in regular clothes and then change into your kinky outfit once you get inside!

Consent is Paramount

Part of our responsibility in fostering a consent culture is to provide some guidance to help prevent consent incidents from happening at our events.

Please make sure you read and understand our event rules and consent guidelines before you come to any AfterDark event. By coming to an event you acknowledge that you understand the rules and agree to abide by them. If you have any questions or need clarification on any of our rules or guidelines please contact us before coming to an event.

Any consent concerns can be confidentially given to the hosts at the event or by email at info@afterdark-events.com.