On the Prowl at Panther Club

Join us for Squirm’s first dating event—your invitation to show up and see what happens. It’s for open-minded adults of all orientations and genders who are tired of dead-end app chats and ready for real conversations—with a little heat. Expect quick-hit convos, smart prompts, and just enough structure to keep things flowing.

Whether you walk away with a match, a moment, or just a really good story, you’ll definitely get more out of this than doomswiping.

Want to get shucked before you get social? Come early for Happy Hour from 5–7 PM: $10 martinis, $10 glass of bubbles, and a dozen oysters for $20.

About Squirm

Squirm helps people have productive and compassionate conversations on difficult topics, primarily related to sex and relationships. While we’re known for spicy conversation, the prompts for this event won’t focus exclusively on sex or veer into anything overly explicit. The goal is to help you find someone you’d want to have squirmy conversations with—but we’re all about comfort, not pressure.

You set the vibe. You steer the convo. Playful? Totally. Respectful? Always.

How it works

You’ll rotate through short one-on-one convos with a stack of prompts to keep things flowing. We’ll keep time—you do the talking. We’ll also sprinkle in a few group chats or games to mix things up along the way.

After the rounds wrap, stick around to mingle, flirt, and fill out a Crush Card with anyone you’d like to see again. If it’s mutual, we’ll make the intro.

Who it’s for

30–42. Any gender. Any orientation. Monogamous or not. You tell us who you’re open to meeting—we’ll take it from there.

Outside the age range? Click here to let us know who you are—we’re planning ahead.