Open Community Potluck & Discussion at DYC's

To reserve your spot, an Eventbrite ticket is required.

RSVP on Plura to let other people know you're attending, to be able to participate in the event chat, and have opportunities to connect with other attendees you may meet at the event. Bloom RSVP does not reserve you a spot at the potluck.

Come share stories, build connections, and meet new friends in a welcoming space centered on ethical non-monogamy, non-traditional relationships, and open-hearted community.

This community values consent, honesty, authenticity, vulnerability, kindness, and accountability. You don’t have to be dating or non-monogamous to attend—if our values resonate with you we’d love to have you.

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Please read the entire event description including all of the community guidelines below before attending your first event.

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CAPACITY

The event space holds 30 people. Tickets are required. If tickets sell out, join the waitlist—there will be no exceptions beyond capacity. See the NOTAFLOF policy at the end of the description if cost is a barrier.

LOCATION

This event is being hosted at a private residence in Santa Clara near Thamien Park. See Eventbrite ticket confirmation email for address.

Save the address to your calender, do not share the address without permission from a host. Direct all address requests to Rose.

HOSTS

Rose and DYC

ACCESSIBILITY

Two story home. Two small steps to get inside. One step to get outside to yard. Upstairs room for small breakouts and additional bathroom in the master bedroom are optional.

PETS

There are no pets. Well behaved service animals are welcome.

WHEN ARE THINGS HAPPENING?

If it’s your first time, arriving on time for the opening circle is essential. If you'll be late and miss it, please reschedule. Returning attendees, let a host or others know if you’ll be late.

7:00 – 8:00 PM | Socializing & Potluck

8:00 – 8:15 PM | Opening Circle (Rules & Topic)

8:15 – 9:15 PM | Small Group Discussions (Topic-based or open)

9:15 – 9:30 PM | Regather, bio break, Closing Circle (Share reflections)

After Closing Circle – 10:00 PM | Freestyle Socializing

DISCUSSION TOPIC

TBA - Open to suggestions in the chat or email them to me directly, or bud me and let me know if you'd like to DM the topic idea to me directly.

POTLUCK FOOD

This is a dinnertime potluck—please bring food or drinks to share. Home-cooked or takeout is welcome. Gluten-free and low-sugar options are often appreciated, and wholesome, filling dishes are always a great choice.

POTLUCK SIGN UP HERE (link posted closer to event date)

PARKING

Street parking.

DRINKING/SMOKING

No smoking or vaping anywhere on the property. Alcohol is BYOB and should be consumed responsibly and in moderation, as it is not the focus of the event.

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COMMUNITY GUIDELINES

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CONFIDENTIALITY

1. Everything shared in this group should be treated as confidential and private.
2. Do not share stories that are not yours and name other individuals without their permission.
3. Do not greet people outside of this group in a manner that would out them.

CONVERSATIONAL CONSENT

1. Be aware of your audience, which is a mix of vanilla and spicy community members
2. Explicit sharing of sex, kink, or BDSM stories should be reserved for private spaces where everyone present has consented to discussing the topic.

CONSENT AND BOUNDARIES

Hugging, kissing, and cuddling may occur at this event between consenting adults.

1. Always ask before entering someone's personal space.
2. A clear "yes" is a yes—anything less than a yes, including a lack of response, a "maybe," or a "no," means no. If you hear "no," respect it and move on.
3. A "no" does not need to be justified or explained.
4. No hard cruising—examples include flirting with everyone of a certain type or gender, asking for contact info or a date from someone you've just met.

HOLDING SPACE FOR EACH OTHER

If you feel comfortable doing so, hold space for each other, including yourself. Holding space means letting people share their truth, exist in their current state of emotional, mental, or physical being without a mask, without assumptions, without judgment or unwanted advice. When you are holding space, there is no fixing that needs to happen. All that is needed is to let them be.

DONATION TICKETS

If you want to avoid Eventbrite fees, or pay a different amount than the default ticket price, choose a donation ticket and enter the amount of your choosing.

NOTAFLOF POLICY

No One is Turned Away For Lack Of Funds. If the price of a ticket would keep you from attending for any reason, including "I don't feel like paying for a ticket at this time", use the "FREE" promo code and the ticket price will be $0. No questions asked.