PHX Latihan & Tantric Temple Party w/Monique & Peter

This event offers a safe, pressure-free container for authentic connection, play, and joy.

PHX Latihan & Tantric Temple Party w/Monique & Peter

This event is open to all genders and identities

What’s This About?

This is a sacred, inclusive space to explore your sensuality, connect deeply with yourself and others, and celebrate the full range of your vital life-force energy.

Whether you're new to this kind of gathering or a seasoned explorer, this event offers a safe, pressure-free container for authentic connection, play, and joy.

Evening Flow

Doors Open: 7:00 PM

Doors Close: 7:45PM sharp (No late entry)

Opening Circle: Arrive, connect, be seen and heard. We’ll co-create agreements and set the tone.

Latihan Practice: A gentle, guided movement meditation into the unknown—great for releasing tension and embodying presence.

Play Space Opens: After the circle, explore what “temple party” means to you. Engage, witness, cuddle, dance, kiss, rest—there’s no right or wrong way to be here.

Closing Circle: 11:45pm

What to Expect

A sensual, respectful, and welcoming environment

A mix of guided and freeform activities

Participation is always optional—observers welcome!

Open to individuals and pairs of all genders and orientations

An intentional, inclusive space especially welcoming to trans, queer, and nonbinary folks

Who Should Attend

This event is for you if:

You’re emotionally and sensually aware—or open to learning

You can communicate clearly and respect boundaries

You’re kind, compassionate, and conduct yourself with integrity

You’re curious, playful, and open-minded

No pressure to "do" anything. You can come just to connect, relax, and soak in the vibe.

What to Bring

Food and non-alcoholic beverages (for yourself or to share)

Comfortable clothing (or sexy attire is your choice!)

Toys/accessories for shared play (optional)

Protection you feel good about

An open heart, curious mind, and playful attitude

No drugs or alcohol, please. We value presence and connection.

Cost (Love Exchange)

Singles: $89 a few early bird tickets will go for $79

Pairs: $169

@ door $120/single, $180/pair (limited quantity—act fast!)

Sliding scale & scholarships available for female-identified attendees—contact Monique or Peter.

You can RSVP here or

If it's easier to pay via Venmo, PayPal, or Zelle, reach out directly. 619-305-3402 or 619-601-8852

Your Hosts

Monique Darling

Author of Beyond Cuddle Party, Monique has led nearly 3000 workshops over 14 years, including at Yale and on TLC. She helps people awaken to their sensual, spiritual selves through embodiment, play, and connection.

Learn more: www.everydaytantra.com

Peter Petersen

Qigong teacher and massage therapist with 24+ years of experience, Peter supports wellness through breath, movement, and self-awareness. His teachings help people live in their bodies with greater presence and vitality.