Pleasure Mapping: A 5-Week Virtual Sensory Series

Ever frozen when asked 'what do you want?' 5 weeks to map your body's pleasure language. Virtual. Singles & couples welcome.

If you've ever frozen when someone asked "what do you want" during intimacy...

Or said "I don't know" when you actually did know, but couldn't find the words...

Or felt like you're supposed to know how to have great sex, but nobody actually taught you how desire works...

You're not broken.

You just need a map.

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For years, when someone asked me "what do you want?" during intimacy, I would freeze.

Not just because I was afraid to ask, but because I genuinely didn't know.

I'd never treated my body as a laboratory. I'd never tracked what actually opened me versus what I thought should open me. I had no data. No vocabulary. Just a vague sense of "more" or "different" that I couldn't translate into words.

What changed wasn't that I got braver.

What changed was that I started treating my body like it deserved to be studied.

I began mapping my accelerators and brakes across the five senses. Dim lighting, not darkness. Cedar scent, not vanilla. House music. Time to arrive, not rushing.

Once I had vocabulary, asking for what I wanted stopped feeling so vulnerable.

This is what we do in Pleasure Mapping.

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What Is Pleasure Mapping?

A 5-week guided online series for individuals and couples who want more intimacy, more clarity, and more aliveness, without pressure, performance, or pushing past themselves.

This work isn't about chasing orgasm or fixing your sex life.

It's about attunement.

Because when you're attuned to yourself, connection with another becomes more playful, more erotic, and more real.

We start March 24, 2026.

Tuesdays, 5-6:30pm MST.

Virtual (Google Meet).

⏰ Early bird closes February 15

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By the End of This Series, You'll Have:

✓ Your personalized Pleasure Map across all five senses, a tangible reference for what genuinely opens you and what quietly shuts you down

✓ Language to express desires and boundaries without over-explaining, collapsing, or bracing for rejection

✓ Practices you can use immediately, no special equipment, no performance pressure, just tools for your actual life

✓ Understanding of your unique accelerators and brakes so you can stop guessing and start choosing

✓ A framework for real intimacy conversations that don't feel like a performance review

✓ The capacity to take responsibility for your experience without carrying the whole relationship

This isn't theory. It's a map you build for yourself, one that works with your nervous system, not against it.

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Who This Is For

This series is for you if:

• You want more intimacy but don't want to push yourself or your partner
• You love each other but struggle to talk about sex without it feeling like a negotiation
• You're single and want to understand your desire before your next relationship
• You crave erotic connection that feels safe and alive, not one or the other, both
• You believe intimacy should be something you grow into, not something you perform
• You're tired of feeling stuck, mismatched, or like you're supposed to "just know"

Whether you come solo or with a partner, you'll be working with the same core question:

What happens when I know myself well enough to let myself be met?

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Why Pleasure Mapping Works Differently

Most sex education focuses on technique. Pleasure Mapping focuses on attunement.

Most relationship advice tells you what to do. PM teaches you how to listen.

Most intimacy programs push you to "just communicate." PM gives you the language and nervous system capacity to actually do it.

This series doesn't give you scripts to memorize or positions to try.

It gives you a framework for understanding yourself, so you can stop performing and start feeling.

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The Journey: What We'll Explore Together

This is a progressive series—each week builds on the last, moving from self-awareness to relational integration.

Week 1 (March 24) — Foundations: Self-Attunement & Choice

You learn how your desire actually works and how to listen without pressure.

We explore: The Dual Control Model of arousal (accelerators and brakes), how to recognize what genuinely opens you vs. what shuts you down, and the difference between choosing and performing.

You'll practice: Body-based check-ins, noticing without judgment, creating space to feel what you actually feel.

You leave with: Understanding of how your unique nervous system responds to pleasure and stress.

Week 2 (March 31) — Sight & Sound: Designing Your Dream "Sex Room"

You explore what your body responds to visually and aurally, and how environment shapes desire.

We explore: How visual and auditory stimuli affect arousal, the role of imagination and fantasy, what "setting the stage" actually means for your body (not just aesthetics).

You'll practice: Sensory visualization exercises, identifying visual and auditory turn-ons and turn-offs, creating intentional space for intimacy.

You leave with: Clarity on your visual and auditory pleasure preferences and how to communicate them.

Week 3 (April 7) — Taste & Smell: Memory, Emotion & the Body

You access pleasure through memory, association, and the senses that bypass logic.

We explore: How scent and taste connect to emotional memory, using sensation to drop into presence, the relationship between pleasure and disgust (and why it matters).

You'll practice: Sensory exploration exercises, identifying associations that open or close you, working with memory as a pathway to desire.

You leave with: Tools to use scent, taste, and memory intentionally in intimate contexts.

Week 4 (April 14) — Touch: Communication, Attunement & Curiosity

You practice asking for what you want, receiving touch with choice, and exploring curiosity together.

We explore: How to ask without apologizing, how to receive without performing, the difference between taking and serving (and why both matter).

You'll practice: Structured touch exercises (with or without a partner), asking clearly, saying no without guilt, staying curious instead of obligated.

You leave with: Language and practice for navigating touch with clarity and choice.

Week 5 (April 21) — Integration: From Knowing to Saying

You translate insight into real conversations using tools like RBDSM, a practical framework for self-advocacy and clarity in intimacy.

We explore: How to bring your Pleasure Map into real-life conversations, navigating mismatched desire with compassion, asking for change without blame, sustaining intimacy over time.

You'll practice: Scripting difficult conversations, role-playing (optional), translating body signals into words your partner can understand.

You leave with: A complete Pleasure Map, language to communicate it, and tools to keep evolving.

Each week includes:

• 90 minutes of live teaching and embodiment practices
• Recorded content you can revisit alone or with your partner
• Optional breakout spaces for reflection and conversation
• Practical tools you can bring directly into your current or future relationship

This isn't about getting it right. It's about learning how to listen.

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How We Approach This Work

This series is grounded in science, guided by sensation, and built for real relationships.

We're not here to perform, fix, or force.

We're here to listen, explore, and expand capacity at the pace your body can hold.

We work with:

The Dual Control Model of Arousal — What accelerates you. What brakes you. How your nervous system actually works (not how you think it should).

Sensory Awareness as a Pathway to Desire and Presence — Pleasure isn't just sexual—it's being alive in your senses. We use sight, sound, touch, taste, and smell as pathways to presence and connection.

The Understanding That Pleasure Can't Be Forced, Only Invited — You can't manufacture desire. You can only create conditions where it's welcome. This changes how we approach everything.

Choice, Capacity, and Orientation Rather Than Guarantees — We honor what's true for you now, not what you think should be true. This isn't about hitting outcomes. It's about expanding your range and respecting your edges.

This orientation is especially supportive if you:

→ Want more intimacy but don't want to push yourself or your partner

→ Love your partner but struggle to talk about sex without it feeling like a negotiation

→ Crave erotic connection that feels safe and alive, not one or the other, both

No pressure to share what you're not ready to share.

No pressure to perform pleasure you're not feeling.

Just tools for knowing yourself and letting intimacy unfold from there.

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Led by Jade Levinson

Certified Sex, Love & Relationship Coach (VITA™ Method) | Wheel of Consent® Facilitator in Training | Trauma-Informed Somatic Practitioner

I've guided hundreds of individuals and couples through embodied intimacy work since 2020, blending nervous system awareness, consent frameworks, and nonviolent communication, minus the fluff.

Creator of "Letters from the Body" | Based in Boulder, CO | Working with clients worldwide

Learn more at jadelevinson.com

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What Past Participants Say:

"My partner and I have been together 12 years. We thought we knew each other. This gave us language we didn't know we were missing. It's changed how we talk about everything, not just sex."— Couple

"I came to this series single and unsure if it would be relevant. It was the most relevant thing I could have done. I finally understand why some connections feel easy and others feel exhausting."— Solo Participant

"Jade creates a space where you can be honest without judgment. I didn't realize how much I was holding back until I didn't have to anymore."— Solo Participant

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Choose Your Experience

🌱 SERIES ONLY

Early Registration (through February 15): $90

Standard Registration (through March 16): $111

Late Registration: $130

Perfect if you're self-motivated, ready to integrate on your own, and want the foundational tools.

Includes:

• 5 live sessions (90 min each, all recorded)
• Pleasure Mapping digital workbook
• Optional breakout spaces for reflection
• Private WhatsApp community for shared resources
• 30-day recording access

⭐ SERIES + INTEGRATION — $290

For individuals and couples who want support bridging insight into lived intimacy.

Includes everything in Series Only, plus:

• One 90-minute private 1:1 integration session
• Personalized reflection on your Pleasure Map
• Custom practices tailored to your nervous system, patterns, and desires
• Support applying this work to your real-life relationship or dating life
• Direct access to me for questions between sessions

💡 Most participants choose Series + Integration because knowing yourself is one thing, translating that into real conversations and choices is another. This package gives you both.

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How the Series Works

Format: 5 weekly 90-minute sessions via Google Meet

Schedule: Tuesdays, March 24, 31 + April 7, 14, 21 | 5:00–6:30 PM MST

Attendance: Solo (work on your relationship with yourself) or with a partner (build shared language)

Participation: Always invitational. Share what feels right. Listen when you need to.

What's Included:

📖 Digital workbook

📱 Private WhatsApp community

🎥 30-day recording access

📚 Optional readings

Missed a Session? All teaching is recorded. Embodiment practices work best live, but you won't fall behind.

Requirements: Internet, device with camera/mic, Google Meet

Not Therapy: This is education and practice, not clinical treatment. Complements therapy beautifully if you're already working with someone.

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Ready to Stop Performing and Start Feeling?

⏰ Early registration closes February 15 at 11:59 PM MST, saving you $21-$40.

After that, prices increase to $111-$130.

This work asks one question:

What happens when you know yourself well enough to let yourself be met?

There's only one way to find out.

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Still Have Questions?

Email me at hello@jadelevinson.com or book a free 15-minute clarity call.

I'm happy to talk through whether this series is right for where you are.

Not Sure If This Is Right for You?

Join my free 5-day email series: "Understanding Your Desire Language: 5 Practices for Self-Attunement"

You'll receive one short practice each day no fluff, just tools you can use immediately.

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Join the March 2026 cohort and start mapping your pleasure.