Polarity & Desire: Mindful Sex Monthly [free]

Want hotter, more electric sex? The secret might be found in the dance of polarity.

Polarity is the erotic charge that happens when two opposing energies meet—directive and receptive, dominant and surrendered, pursuing and yielding. That tension is the magnetic pull of polarity, and it can supercharge your desire and sexual play. Playing with polarity consciously can make things get very hot, very fast ❤️‍🔥

This free 90-minute workshop explores how to cultivate and play with polarity to deepen attraction, ignite turn-on, and create the kind of connection that keeps you coming back to your lover for more.

We all contain a multitude of dynamic energies, and in this workshop we'll help you explore all the ways to play with them. What we're NOT going to do is conflate polarity with gender. While masculine/feminine language works for some people, it's limiting for most of us who exist as switchy, bi/pansexual, or live beyond the gender binary.

Here's what we'll explore together:

• What polarity actually is (and isn't), and why it matters for your sex life
• How unconscious energetic patterns can flatten desire, and how playing with the dynamic energies within can light it up
• The many faces of polarity play: D/s dynamics, role play, directive & receptive, and more
• Guided practices to feel into your various energies
• Practical tools for bringing more charge into your relationship, in and out of the bedroom

The lecture will be VERY EXPLICIT but there's no nudity from teachers or participants. This workshop is open to everyone. We're queer/kink/trans/polyam/ENM friendly 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️

These free monthly Mindful Sex workshops are hosted by Andrea and Christopher—a Sex Coach and Sex Therapist who also happen to be (newly) married! We can't wait to explore this with you.

Meet your Guides:

Andrea Devon Bertoli is a Pleasure Coach and Sex Educator who blends the spiritual and scientific to help you experience deeper pleasure and sensual connection with self and other. She offers deep work for perimenopausal women (and their partners) who want to feel at home in their changing bodies and rediscover pleasure, play, and power in midlife.

In her holistic approach to sexual wellness, she uses tools from Tantra, mindfulness, therapy, and yoga to help people find new ways of relating to their own body and others. She creates delicious online pleasure education on Patreon, and facilitates sacred spaces in workshops and classes online and in-person. She is certified as a practitioner of Urban Tantra, a certified Sex Educator, and has a Master’s degree in Gender Studies from University of Hawaii at Manoa. She is a queer, kinky Tantrika, and queer/trans/polyam/ENM friendly + positive 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ You can find Andrea’s Pleasure Education on Patreon, and get free content on Instagram, TikTok, and Facebook.

Christopher Frier Brown, LCSW, CST, has over 20 years in practice as a Psychotherapist and Sex Therapist. His dynamic therapy practice draws on his many years of experience and some of the best training in the field, including the Baylor College of Medicine, The Menninger Clinic, the Gottman Institute, and the University of Michigan’s Sexual Health Certificate Program. Christopher works with individuals and couples on a range of mental health challenges and helps his coupled clients explore non-monogamy and build ‘rockstar relationships.’

Here are some testimonials from our previous events:

“If you are wanting to deepen your connection with yourself and others then I highly recommend working with Andrea. She is a wealth of knowledge and has training in so many interesting fields that come together in a way to really helps to integrate communication, understanding your own needs and others!”

“Andrea is a terrific facilitator who comes well prepared with interesting prompts and lots of her own experiences to share, and also creates space for everyone to participate with their own questions and insights.”