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Poly Seeking Anchors at Nonmonogameetup by Second Glances

Join Second Glances at Nonmonogameetup for a relaxed poly social—optional name tags help anchor‑seekers find each other.

Looking to spot kindred spirits at Oakland’s monthly Nonmonogameetup?

We’ll be there with a simple, opt‑in matchmaking twist:

We’re bringing two styles of name tags: one signals “I’m looking for an anchor/primary partner,” the other says “I’m not currently seeking an anchor partner (or prefer not to say).” Choose a tag if it helps break the ice—or skip it entirely and mingle as usual.

📅 Monday, May 12

⏰ 7 – 10 PM (drop in any time)

📍 Zanzi Oakland — 19 Grand Ave, Oakland, CA 94612

💸 Free • 21+ • No ticket or RSVP required

What to Expect

  1. A lively crowd of polyamorous, ENM, and poly‑curious people.
  2. Zero pressure—name tags are optional, conversation is casual.
  3. Second Glances hosts on‑site to answer questions about future socials, hikes, and our structured speed‑dating events.

Who It’s For

  1. Anyone practicing or exploring consensual non‑monogamy.
  2. Both anchor‑seekers and folks happy as they are.
  3. All genders, orientations, and relationship configurations welcome.

Note: Nonmonogameetup has kindly invited Second Glances to add this lightweight activity, but we’re not official co‑hosts of the event. Check out their plura event for Nonmonogameetup here: https://plra.io/m/onm0525

Come grab a tag (or don’t) and meet new faces in a relaxed, community‑minded setting. See you Monday!

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