FemDom for Nice Girls with Mx Kitty Babalon

You don’t have to be mean to be a Queen.

Do you ever wonder if dominance could feel good in your body—without performing a stereotype that doesn’t fit?
In FemDom for Nice Girls, we’ll explore what it means to own your erotic authority from a place of authenticity and care.

Together, we’ll unpack common myths about Dominance and the Dominatrix, explore empowering Domme archetypes, and dive into fantasy creation through a feminine lens. We'll also unpack the FemDom’s bag of tricks-including differences between S/M and D/s, and how to make the best of these tools.

This workshop includes guided discussion and simple hands-on exercises to help you find your signature dominant style—whether that’s nurturing, commanding, seductive, or something totally unique.

You’ll leave with greater confidence, embodied tools, and a clearer sense of how to play with power in a way that feels natural, sexy, and fun.

The class will be held on Zoom. The waiting room opens 15 minutes early at 6:45PM. Instruction begins at 7PM.

FAQs

1. I just can’t be mean… is this class for me?

Absolutely! This workshop is all about helping you find your authentic version of dominance. You’ll learn that there are many ways to be in charge—including playful, sensual, nurturing, or even bratty!

2. Is this class for women only?

Nope! This is about Femme Dominance - domination through a feminine lens and expression. All genders and orientations are welcome. (In fact, your instructor is high-femme presenting nonbinary, i.e. a Them Fatale)

3. Will there be hands-on practice?

Yes, we’ll have guided, opt-in activities that help you experiment with posture, voice, presence, and commands. You’ll never be put on the spot, and everything is consent-based.

4. Is this for couples or solo folks?

Both! You can attend solo, with a partner, or with a friend. You’ll have chances to reflect and practice in ways that feel comfortable for your situation.

5. What should I bring or wear?

Comfortable clothes you feel sexy and powerful in. No specific gear is required beyond a pen and notebook for writing prompts.

About the Instructor

Mx Kitty Babalon (they/them) is a Certified Holistic Sex Educator and Erotic Life Coach with over a decade of experience in Lifestyle and Professional Domination. They’ve worked with individuals and couples around the country to overcome shame, build confidence, and create authentic erotic lives. Known for their warmth, inclusivity, and clear teaching style, Mx Kitty specializes in helping “nice girls,” sensitive folks, and recovering people-pleasers discover how powerful they really are—without ever pretending to be someone they’re not. Find them on Instagram, Facebook, and Fetlife.

Access

The class will be held on Zoom. The access link will be provided to ticket holders in the email receipt. Please check your inbox and spam folder; if you have not received the ticket link, please email praxium@afterdark-sf.com.

The waiting room opens 15 minutes early at 6:45PM. Instruction begins at 7PM.

Tickets:

1. Tickets are sliding scale $15-$30
2. No Refunds. All sales are Final.

About Praxium

Praxium is a center for kink and sex-positive education, dedicated to building community and expanding knowledge. We honor the rich traditions of the queer leather and kink communities while striving to create a more inclusive, consent-driven culture.

We provide high-quality education - both foundational and advanced - that empowers individuals to explore, play, and connect with confidence and agency. We believe in fostering spaces that support learning, curiosity, and personal growth.

Whether you're new to kink or a seasoned player, Praxium offers opportunities to expand your knowledge, refine your skills, and engage with a thriving community. Reach out to learn more about our classes or how to collaborate with us by emailing us at praxium@afterdark-sf.com