Emotional Labour & Erotic Authority w/ The Lady Grey (Online)

This class will recorded. The recording will be sent to ticket holders and available for viewing for 30 days.

Emotional Labour & Erotic Authority: Why being in charge means tending to the inner lives of your people—with kink as a guide.

In this advanced, experiential workshop, we explore the emotional labour of Dominants: how we anchor scenes, relationships, and communities with care, clarity, and presence.

From soft-power rituals to the realities of dom-drop, we’ll unpack how authority can become sacred when it’s grounded in empathy, not exhaustion. You’ll learn how to lead without collapsing, receive care without guilt, and build structures of support that honour your dominance and your humanity.

We’ll blend lecture, story, and group reflection, with practices designed to nourish your nervous system as much as your authority.

Whether you’re a seasoned pro domme, an anchor in your polycule, or an emerging top learning the ropes: this is a space to reflect, recalibrate, and root your power in something sustainable.

About the Instructor

The Lady Grey is a London-based erotic educator, ritual designer, and soft power strategist. She teaches at the intersection of dominance, ethics, and psychological depth. With a background in project management, community facilitation, and trauma-informed BDSM, her work weaves kink wisdom with queer theory, emotional intelligence, and systems thinking.

Lush, literate, and laced with authority. Whether leading workshops on conscious power exchange, financial submission, or collective care, The Lady Grey invites her students to explore control as curation rather than coercion, and obedience as a willing, artful offering. She speaks internationally on themes such as the ethics of erotic leadership, the aesthetics of influence, and the lived politics of softness.

Visit her website, Instagram, Fetlife, and on Facebook under Morgan Grey.

Access

The class will be held on Zoom. The access link will be provided to ticket holders in the email receipt. Please check your inbox and spam folder; if you have not received the ticket link, please email praxium@afterdark-sf.com.

The waiting room opens 15 minutes early at 10:45AM PT. Instruction begins at 11AM PT.

Tickets:

1. Tickets are sliding scale $20-$35
2. No Refunds. All sales are Final.

About Praxium

Praxium is a center for kink and sex-positive education, dedicated to building community and expanding knowledge. We honor the rich traditions of the queer leather and kink communities while striving to create a more inclusive, consent-driven culture.

We provide high-quality education - both foundational and advanced - that empowers individuals to explore, play, and connect with confidence and agency. We believe in fostering spaces that support learning, curiosity, and personal growth.

Whether you're new to kink or a seasoned player, Praxium offers opportunities to expand your knowledge, refine your skills, and engage with a thriving community. Reach out to learn more about our classes or how to collaborate with us by emailing us at praxium@afterdark-sf.com