Overview

An Exploration in Connection, Chemistry & Consent. Expanding Intimacy with Intention. Come Solo or Partnered. All levels Welcome.

Unikink Signature Experience Playing with a Third

Featuring Guest Co-Facilitator Mistress Chi

Step into a guided exploration of triadic dynamics, power exchange, and intentional connection.

“Playing with a Third” is a Unikink Signature Event designed for couples, partnerships, and curious individuals who want to explore adding another dynamic — ethically, consciously, and with structure. Whether you are brand new to triad exploration or refining an existing dynamic, this experience offers grounded tools and live demonstrations to help you move with clarity and confidence.

Co-facilitated by Mistress Chi, this immersive workshop blends education, embodied exercises, and facilitated discussion to create a container where everyone feels seen, respected, and empowered.

In This Experience, We Will Explore:

• Power dynamics in triadic play

• Consent frameworks beyond “yes/no”

• Negotiation strategies before, during, and after a scene

• Identifying and communicating desires, curiosities, and limits

• Emotional attunement and care

• Flow, energetic awareness, and role clarity

• How to structure a scene so all participants feel engaged and valued

You’ll learn practical tools for setting up a scene that prioritizes safety, clarity, and shared pleasure — without leaving anyone on the sidelines.

What to Expect:

• Structured teaching + open dialogue

• Live demonstrations of dynamic flow and scene structure

• Guided negotiation exercises

• Community discussion in a respectful, consent-centered space

• Optional practice integration (non-explicit, clothed exploration format)

Who This Is For:

• Couples considering inviting a third

• Existing triads seeking better structure and communication

• Singles interested in joining partnered dynamics ethically

• Kink-curious individuals wanting to deepen consent and negotiation skills

All genders, orientations, and experience levels welcome.

Unikink events prioritize safety, confidentiality, and emotional maturity. Respectful participation is required.

Come ready to explore desire with depth, communication with precision, and connection with intention.

Experience Format

• Guided technical instruction and demonstrations
• Partnered and solo practice options
• Instructor walk-throughs and 1:1 support
• Open lab time for refinement and questions
• Grounding and integration moments to close

🎟️ Join Us for an Evening of Connection, Exploration & Presence

Come as you are, move at your own pace, and co-create an experience rooted in trust, creativity, and conscious play.

Dress Code

Come in what makes you feel comfortable, sexy, or expressive.

All styles and identities are welcome—think cozy, flowy, lingerie, rope-ready, or bold self-expression. There is no “right” way to show up.

Inclusivity Statement

This is a shame-free, all-inclusive space.

We do not tolerate discrimination based on gender, sexual orientation, relationship style, race, body type, ability, or background. Consent, respect, and personal agency are foundational values of this experience.

Whether you’re here to learn, explore, connect, or transform—this is a space to do it safely, somatically, and with full support.

LATE ENTRY & REFUNDS

Doors open at 7:00 PM and close at 7:30 PM Refund requests must be submitted at least 7 days prior.

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📸 Pagans Paradise: IG @pagansparadise

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IG @Unikink718

Website: www.unikink.com

Email: info@unikink.com

Questions?

Email: PagansParadiseNYC@gmail.com

About Your Facilitators:

Mistress Chi

Mistress Chi is a professional dominatrix, tantra practitioner, intimacy guide and unapologetic nerd of orgasm and feminine power. Her work lives where eros meets presence meets initiation — right at the moment you realize thinking harder won’t save you.

She works with people who want to feel more, not intellectualize their way around intimacy; people who understand that real closeness comes from precision, responsiveness, and telling the truth in the moment. Melody believes pleasure leads to embodied wisdom, presence softens edges to reveal truth, and intimacy begins when you stop performing and start actually responding.

Social: Instagram @itsmistresschi

James Marshall

Meet James Marshall, founder of UniKINK, a passionate Shibari mentor and teacher dedicated to creating a safe space where community connection, meditation, and mindset converge. James harnesses the captivating art of Shibari, a form of Japanese rope bondage, to foster deep connections within the community. His teachings emphasize the meditative aspect of Shibari, allowing individuals to explore their inner selves while strengthening their mindset. James views Shibari as more than just an art form – it’s a tool for personal growth and community building.

Skye Nunez

Ever curious and eager for exploration, Skye is an eros facilitator committed to building a connected community. A newer rope bottom in the community, Skye loves to explore the possibilities of Klnk, Tantra & Shibari and hold space for others.