QueerBang

It is required for you to READ EVERYTHING! Pay attention to dates and deadlines. If you do not complete forms by deadline your ticket maybe changed to a Spectator.

Description:

QueerBang is an intentional, queer-focused gangbang party where queer connections and sexuality are celebrated in diverse ways. This event is designed to uplift and embrace queer identities, offering an intimate, passionate, and liberating space for playful exploration.

QueerBang features a well-orchestrated dynamic, with bottoms at the center of attention, each surrounded by a dedicated group of bangers. The energy is kept high and the transitions smooth with the help of attentive fluffers, ensuring that everyone remains engaged, on deck, and fully immersed in the experience.

While QueerBang is a celebration of queer identities and experiences, we recognize that many queer people have cis friends they’d like to share this space with. Established non-queer partners of queer-attendees may attend with their queer partners as long as they do not cruise for play.

Agenda

1. May 19th - Connection Profile Matchup sent out
2. May 30th - Submit Connection Profile Matchup Deadline** (if you do not complete this in time your role maybe turned into a spectator)**
3. May 30th - June 6th - Review other participants and choose matches.
4. June 6th - Submit Connection Profile Matchup deadline
5. June 12th - Matches will be sent out so you can review in advance.
6. June 15th - QueerBang!

Queerbang Schedule

1. 12:00 pm — Doors Open
2. 12:30 pm - 1:30 pm — Social Time
3. 1:30 pm – Doors Close
4. 1:30 pm - 2:00pm — Opening Circle (no late entries without prior permission)
5. 2:00 pm - 3:00 pm — first round of bangs
6. 3:00pm - 3:30 pm — break
7. 3:30pm - 4:30 pm — second round of bangs
8. 4:30 pm - 6:00 pm — open play and socializing

Mandatory Social Hour & Opening Circle

To cultivate safety and shared understanding, both the social hour and the opening circle are now mandatory for all gangbang participants. Arriving late means sitting this one out. Late arrivals are only allowed with prior permission. We want everyone entering the space to have the same foundational agreements and shared context before any scenes begin.

QueerBang Signal Group: Connect Before You Bang

Want to flirt, vibe, and get a sense of who else is coming before the big day? Join the QueerBang Signal Group, our optional pre-event chat for ticket holders!

This is a space to:

1. Share your vibe, desires, or role(s) you're interested in playing
2. Ask questions, get hyped, and swap cute pictures (get consent before sharing pictures)
3. Make early connections and maybe even line up some pre-party sparks ✨

We encourage respectful, playful engagement that centers queer joy, enthusiastic consent, and shared excitement for the event. No pressure to post, but all are welcome to join.

Signal group invite link will be sent to all ticket holders via email.

Please note: this chat is moderated, and community standards apply—so bring your best self and respect others' boundaries.

What to Expect:

After you purchase your ticket, you will receive a link to the Queerbang Connection Profile form. We ask that you fill the form out as honestly and thoroughly as possible. This will help everyone have the best possible experience during their bangs. Your form needs to be submitted ASAP, in order to be able to review and pre-select potential bang partners; or be available to be reviewed and pre-selected by others. You have 5 days from the date of purchase to complete the form or we may release your ticket and convert it to a spectator ticket. If this happens you will not be able to participate in the facilitated bangs, so please get your forms in promptly.

Beginning May 19th ticket holders who are participating in the gangbangs will receive a link to QueerBang Connection Profile Matchup form that will invite them to review and choose other participants they are interested in playing with. This form is an evolving document that will be updated with details submitted by bang participants. This form needs to be completed by May 30th in order to be included in the gangbang schedule. We will make our best efforts to connect mutual matches, and we also encourage guests to mingle and make connections before the opening circle takes place.

No entry allowed after opening circle without prior permission.

Gangbang participants will find out their suggested bangs when they arrive at the party.

The event itself will unfold in two rounds of gangbangs, with multiple conducted bangs happening simultaneously during each round. After the facilitated rounds, the venue will be made available for open play, mingling, socializing, spectating, etc… This would be a great time to build upon connections made earlier in the party for further exploration.

Roles:

Bottoms: You are the heart of the action! Receive focused attention and energy from your group of bangers and fluffers, who are dedicated to creating an experience tailored to your desires.

Bangers: Dive into the excitement as part of a dedicated group, bringing intensity and passion to the bang. Your role is to ensure that your bottom is fully pleasured!

Fluffers: As a fluffer, you play a crucial role in maintaining the energy. You will provide support, and ensure everything is ready to go at all times! You will help keep the experience uninterrupted and pleasurable.

Spectators: Immerse yourself in the erotic energy of the room, where passion and desire flow. Find your spot in the designated spectators spots, kick back, and take it all in from a distance as the night unfolds before you. After the gangbang rounds are complete, you are free to use the playspace along with other guests. Viewing Guidelines: Spectators must be appreciative voyeurs. Appreciative voyeurism means being present for a scene in a way that respects the energy, boundaries, and comfort of those involved. You're there to witness—not to direct, distract, or disrupt.

1. Standing at a respectful distance from the scene, not hovering or crowding the participants.
2. Making eye contact only if invited—and breaking it if someone looks away or seems uncomfortable.
3. Staying quiet or softly affirming—a gentle "mmm," a smile, or an appreciative nod, rather than loud commentary.
4. Enjoying without performing— no masturbation, getting turned on is normal and welcome—but expressing it is not welcome at this event.
5. No talking to people mid-scene. If someone is in the middle of play, don’t interrupt or try to engage unless they’ve invited it.
6. Respect the whiteboard. If the scene has posted their viewing preferences (e.g., “watch only,” “cheering welcome,” “don’t crowd”), follow them exactly.
7. Read the room. If your presence feels distracting, even if no one says anything, step back. You can always ask a Conductor for help gauging your impact.

Conductor Role:

In addition to the primary roles, we're introducing the Scene Conductor—an essential part of each scene’s success. Conductors will:

1. Suggest new positions or activities to keep the action lively and dynamic if a group reaches a standstill.
2. Provide essential supplies such as lube, condoms, and other sex-related items to ensure comfort and safety.
3. Offer water and refreshments to participants, keeping everyone hydrated and energized throughout the scene.
4. Serve as scene guardians. They’ll not only help keep the action flowing but will also monitor spectator behavior and be available to address concerns.

If you are interested in being a conductor please email beyondtherainbowevents@gmail.com

Improved Scene Boundaries

All gangbang scenes will now be clearly roped off to create strong visual and physical boundaries. Spectators will be expected to keep a respectful distance and remain outside the scene zones unless explicitly invited in.

Scene Whiteboards: Set Your Viewing Preferences

Each scene will now include a whiteboard where bottoms (and their group) can indicate how they want to be watched. This makes scene boundaries crystal clear—and personalized. Spectators are expected to read and follow the whiteboard instructions exactly. These boards are here to help each group set the vibe that’s right for them—and for everyone else to honor it. Appreciating a scene starts with respecting the boundaries the participants have clearly laid out.

Important Details:

1. Inclusivity: We warmly invite and encourage individuals of all ages, races, ethnicities, gender identities, and abilities to attend our event. We are committed to creating an inclusive and welcoming environment where everyone can feel safe, respected, and celebrated. Your unique identity and experiences enrich our community, and we look forward to sharing this special experience with you.
2. Consent: Enthusiastic consent is mandatory at all times. We are dedicated to maintaining a safe and comfortable environment for everyone.
3. Vibe: Expect a playful, respectful, and liberating atmosphere where queer expression is centered and celebrated.

This event promises an unforgettable experience where queer identities are celebrated in all their beautiful forms. QueerBang is more than a party, it is a time for connection, exploration, pleasure, and shared joy in an environment that centers and celebrates us! Register now!

Inclusivity & Accessibility:

1. Inclusivity: We warmly invite and encourage individuals of all ages, races, ethnicities, gender identities, and abilities to attend our event. We are committed to creating an inclusive and welcoming environment where everyone can feel safe, respected, and celebrated. Your unique identity and experiences enrich our community, and we look forward to sharing this special experience with you.
2. Consent: Enthusiastic consent is mandatory at all times. We are dedicated to maintaining a safe and comfortable environment for everyone. Read the event rules and consent guidelines.
3. Vibe: Expect a playful, respectful, and liberating atmosphere where queer expression is centered and celebrated.

Accessibility Notes:

The entrance to the space is on the ground floor, which includes lockers (bring your own lock or purchase one at the front desk), social areas, and two bathrooms. There are no steps on the ground floor. The bathrooms are each single stall with grab bars on the wall and toilets mounted to the floor. The basement of the venue contains play areas and can only be reached via stairs. There will be music playing throughout the night, and ear plugs are available for free at the front desk. There are colored lights in use throughout the venue, including rotating “party lights” for ambiance. Cell phones are prohibited from being used in the venue and must be stored; however, you may speak to a host about reasonable accommodations if needed for things such as continuous glucose monitoring. If you have any accessibility questions, please email beforedawnsf@gmail.com or beyondtherainbowevents@gmail.com.

COVID-19 safety measures:

1. All guests MUST take a rapid test on the day of the event, before arriving, and write the date on the test or immediately next to the test.
2. Take a photo of the negative test & show it to the door guard when you arrive.
3. We will have a limited number of tests for sale at $25 each in case anyone is unable to pretest

Dress Code:

Come dressed in whatever makes you look and feel sexy, confident, and ready to take on the world. Lingerie, sexy outfits, kinky costumes are all welcome. Make an effort to impress, but if nothing else comes to mind then dress as you would for a fancy night out. Just be mindful that you might have to wait in line outside when you arrive and that you are welcome to arrive in regular clothes and then change into your kinky outfit once you get inside.

Tickets:

Presale tickets are required. Ticket prices are $60 for all roles. However tickets for gangbang participation are limited and will sell out first so hurry and get yours now!

All tickets include all taxes and fees. No refunds— all sales are final. Ticket transfers to other guests may be accommodated on a case-by-case basis & may incur a $10 transfer fee per ticket. Please email us at beforedawnsf@gmail.com to transfer your ticket.

Volunteer Tickets: FREE!

Volunteering is a great way to meet people, and feel involved in the community, plus you get in for free! SIGN UP HERE!

Consent is Paramount

Part of our responsibility in fostering a consent culture is to provide some guidance to help prevent consent incidents from happening at our events.

Please make sure you read and understand our Consent and Guidelines before you come to any Before Dawn or Beyond the Rainbow event. By coming to an event you acknowledge that you understand the rules and agree to abide by them. If you have any questions or need clarifications on any of our rules or guidelines please contact us before coming to an event.

Any consent concerns can be confidentially given to the hosts at the event or by email at beforedawnsf@gmail.com or beyondtherainbowevents@gmail.com.

ABOUT YOUR HOSTS

Before Dawn, an AfterDark affinity group, creates intentional sex-positive spaces for adults aged 18 and above. Our guests represent all countercultures, gender identities, sexual orientations, relationship configurations, races, ethnicities, body types, roles, and experience levels. We expect all guests to honor the diversity of our community. We will not tolerate behavior or language to the contrary at our events. Before Dawn guests are consent-conscious and community minded. We strive to create an atmosphere of safety and trust which in turn creates time and space for comfortable connection and exploration. For more information about Before Dawn events, visit our Plura page.

Beyond the Rainbow Events is a welcoming and enjoyable environment to socialize, play, connect, and explore. Our events are sex-positive and kink focused. All gender identities, sexual orientations, relationship styles, races, ethnicities, body shapes, roles, and experience levels are welcomed and celebrated in these spaces.

We have themed immersive events, highlighting workshops, new presenters, performers and feature skill-shares by members of our community. We recognize that initiating conversations, especially in environments exploring intimacy and kink, can be both exhilarating and challenging. That's why we will incorporate a selection of curated interactive icebreakers that seamlessly blend friendly connections with a touch of sensuality or kink. Whether you're a seasoned participant or new to our community, our events offer structured opportunities to engage with others, creating a space where everyone can feel welcomed and at ease. For more about Beyond the Rainbow events at our Plura page.