QUEERDOS: Queerer, Kinkier, & Prouder - Pride Edition!

An Intentional Space Created By Queers For Queers!

Join us again at Stopgap for the next chapter of Queerdos this Pride- an exhilarating night of queer and kinky exploration and play! Queerdos is a sexy, kinky play party created to specifically prioritize, center, and celebrate queer people in kink and sex-positive communities. We’re crafting an unabashed, safer space for connection, conversation, dance, exploration and play in an increasingly uncertain world.

This play party was created, and is run, by queer people for queer people. If you self-identify as queer, you are queer enough to come. Non-queer partners are also welcome as long as they attend with their queer partner and stay together throughout the event.

Queerdos is a celebration of queer identities, experiences, and community. We know that many queer folks have non-queer partners they’d like to share this space with, and we welcome those partners when attending together. However, this event is not open to allies attending on their own. We appreciate the support, but this space is intentionally created by and for queer people and their established partners. Thank you for respecting the intention and spirit of the event.

Queerdos Highlights

1. Date & Time: Saturday, June 29, 8:00 PM - 2:00 AM
2. Location: Stopgap, San Francisco, CA (the exact venue address will be sent to ticket holders only for privacy and safety reasons, but it is in SoMa).

Queerdos Features:

1. An affirming space - explore and express yourself freely in a consent-forward environment free of judgement.
2. Multiple play areas equipped for BDSM and sexual activities.
3. Skilled and friendly house tops led by @NyxieNoc will be offering exciting samplers.
4. DJ spinning tunes for a night of connection, dance, and play.
5. Vendors offering hot, sexy, kinky wares.
6. Stickers and wristband system to facilitate connections.
7. Dedicated social area, dance floor, dungeon, fuck room, and cuddle room.
8. Deliciously catered food, including vegan options.

Vendors: Want to Vend at Queerdos?

Fill out a vendor application here!

COVID-19 Safety Measures

1. All guests MUST take a rapid test on the day of the event, before arriving, and write the date on the test or immediately next to the test
2. Take a photo of the negative test & show it to the door guard when you arrive.
3. We will have a limited number of tests for sale at $25 each in case anyone is unable to pretest

Inclusivity & Safety

We warmly invite and encourage queer individuals of all ages, races, ethnicities, gender identities, sexual orientations, and abilities to attend our event. We are committed to creating an inclusive and welcoming environment where everyone can feel safe, respected, and celebrated. Your unique identity and experiences enrich our community, and we look forward to sharing this special experience with you.

Note: This event centers queer people and their established non-queer partners. If you’re not queer and aren’t attending with a queer partner, we ask that you honor the intention of this space by sitting this one out. Your support means a lot, and creating gatherings that center queer experiences is part of how we build a safer and more affirming community.

Consent and respectful behavior required. Read the event rules and consent guidelines.

Accessibility Notes:

The entrance to the space is on the ground floor and includes lockers (bring your own lock or purchase one at the front desk for $10), vendor areas, play areas, and two bathrooms. The basement of the venue can only be reached via stairs. There will be music playing throughout the event, and ear plugs are available for free at the front desk. There are colored lights in use throughout the venue, including rotating “party lights” for ambiance. Cell phones are prohibited from being used in the venue and must be stored; however, you may speak to a host about reasonable accommodations if needed for things such as continuous glucose monitoring.

Dress Code:

Dressing queer and/or weird is strongly encouraged in order to help maintain the immersive ambiance of the night. We encourage you to dress up at least a little. Make an effort to impress, but if nothing else comes to mind then dress as you would for a fancy night out.

What makes you feel sexy, confident, ready to take on the world?

1. General dungeon wear?
2. Costumes?
3. Leather or rubber?
4. Skimpy lingerie that leaves little to the imagination?
5. Rainbow extravaganza?

Whatever it is, we want it here. Bring it. Just be mindful that you might have to wait in line outside when you arrive and that you are welcome to arrive in regular clothes and then change into your kinky outfit once you get inside

Tickets:

Presale tickets are strongly recommended to secure a spot and to save money. Ticket prices are tiered as follows and include all fees and taxes. Each tier will have tickets available until the tier sells out. Lower tiers will sell out fast so we recommend getting your tickets as soon as possible!

1. Tier 1 (Early bird) - $40
2. Tier 2 - $50
3. Tier 3 - $60
4. Tier 4 (Door - includes COVID-19 test) - $75
5. Financial Access (while available): $25

Consent is Paramount

Part of our responsibility in fostering a consent culture is to provide some guidance to help prevent consent incidents from happening at our events.

Please make sure you read and understand our event rules and consent guidelines before you come to any AfterDark event. By coming to an event you acknowledge that you understand the rules and agree to abide by them. If you have any questions or need clarification on any of our rules or guidelines please contact us before coming to an event.

Any consent concerns can be confidentially given to the hosts at the event or by email at info@afterdark-events.com.