Radiant Relating w/ Snuggle Lab
Friends, Join Us for a Special Event on Saturday, November 30th!
Register here -https://forms.gle/fQJ8rvP2zWGLr9q48
Come get nourished in sweet community through a unique combination of authentic relating, embodied consent, meditation, somatics, laughter, and **always optional** platonic touch.
If you’re new to this, the idea of a “snuggle party” might sound intimidating— you’re not alone. Many first-timers feel a mix of curiosity and hesitation. Rest assured, this event is thoughtfully facilitated, starting with about an hour of gradual, guided connection that is not focused on touch. We are all about finding our authentic Yes’s and No’s - making this a great place to practice having your boundaries not just honored but celebrated!
(Platonic means "intimate and affectionate but not sexual" - this is a clothed event, no kissing, no genital area touching, sensual but not sexual energy).
I’m going to share with you all the event logistics but first I’d like to share with you why I’m so passionate about creating these gatherings.
Here’s the secret: “Snuggle Lab” is a cover. Sure, it’s a playful and attention-grabbing name, but what’s happening in this ”lab” is nothing short of revolutionary—or as I like to call it, Relational Evolution.
Okay, take a deep breath, we’re gonna dive deep here for a second.
The original and most essential tool of Empire* is…separation. Separated from our bodies, our voices, our environment, our feelings, and each other, we feel anxiety, despair, and helplessness. This is how the forces that seek to dominate, diminish, and exploit us gain control.
In the spaces I curate, we don’t gather just to “snuggle”; we’re here to disrupt the systems of separation that keep us disconnected. We build a temporary autonomous zone, where we dream of and practice new ways of being human together. We playfully create Consent Culture, where our nervous systems can heal, attune, and help each other co-regulate. And we create resonant fields of belonging that not only nourish us personally but can be tapped into by others who desperately need this resource.
Pretty radical for a snuggle party huh? Okay, back to pillows and pajamas - here’s the practical details:
Event Flow
• 6:30 PM: Doors Open – Arrive, and settle in.
• 7:00 PM: Doors Close – No further entries to maintain the container.
• 7:00 PM - Radiant Relating: Engaging discussions, interactive exercises, and playful movement to build connection.
• ? 8:30 PM: Snack Break ?
• 8:45 PM - Snuggle Lab: Begin with facilitated activities to explore platonic touch (always optional), followed by open connection time. If you prefer to just observe during this time - we love our witnesses!
• 9:45 PM: Closing Circle (stay snuggly if you like)
• 10:00 PM: Gentle Transition – Space closes at 10:30pm. (Feel free to leave earlier if desired).
What to Bring
• Water bottle, and if possible, a clean, unscented pillow and blanket.
• Snacks for yourself if you have specific needs. We will provide some to share too but welcome additional “healthier” offerings - gluten free most appreciated!
• You - So fresh and so clean, in comfy, unscented clothing (pajamas welcome!).
Where
Location is in an industrial area of SE PDX, free street parking can usually be found within 1-4 blocks of the space. Address is given after you register.
Carpooling, Ubers, or other transport encouraged.
Once inside the building you will be welcomed into a beautifully lit space with ample squishy mats for comfort.
Contribution
We value this experience at $45 per person but invite you to contribute $25-$50+ as your means allow.
Venmo: @Troi-Kunko
• Volunteer perks: Free ticket for volunteers—see opportunities below!
How to Join
1 Fill out the Registration Form & Waiver: Required to receive the event address. Here's the link -https://forms.gle/fQJ8rvP2zWGLr9q48
2 Prepay or Pay at the Door: Pre-pay is most helpful and we also welcome same-day decisions to join (but register asap please).
Volunteer Roles Needed
• Set-Up Crew & Registration/Door Hosts (2 in addition to Troi team)
• Snack Bringers: Contribute thoughtful snacks , drinks, and supplies. (3-4)
• Space Monitor: Keep the space running smoothly during the event. (1)
• Music: Collaborate on the event playlist. (1)
• Photographer/Videographer: Capture moments of the space and Troi facilitation (no attendees).
• Take-Down Crew (stay until 11 PM) (2)
• Laundry Fairy: Wash, dry, and fold 5-6 loads of sheets (reimbursement possible).
• Other Offerings: Tea service, sound bath, space blessing, art table, or other things you feel called to share!
Let us know how you’d like to contribute when you register! Volunteer roles are limited. We require a $5 deposit if you are accepted into a volunteer position, this will be refunded when you complete your role. Thank you for understanding the importance of following through on volunteer duties.
This event is part of growing the Snuggle Lab community in Portland and beyond. Co-creating a world where connection, care, and consent are the norms.
Can’t wait to share this magical space with you!
Warmly, Troi DeLuz