Reclaiming the BJ

Most advice about blowjobs starts with the same premise: this is for them.

Something to perform.

A task to get through.

An expected outcome to deliver.

This workshop flips that script.

Reclaiming the BJ centers the giver’s experience ~ not as an afterthought, but as the main event. Drawing inspiration from the therapeutic modality of Mindful Eating, this fully clothed, solo-practice workshop blends conscious embodiment with playful skill-building to help you reimagine, explore, and savor the act.

Together we’ll explore:

🍯 Sensory attunement: guided solo practices using fruit, honey, and your own fingers to awaken your mouth as a site of curiosity and care.

💭 Repatterning old scripts: simple frameworks and practical tools to shift oral acts from chore to choice, whether the object of your desire is a bio-cock, synthetic cock, energetic cock, or no partner at all.

🪷 Conscious touch: creating a grounded experience that's physically and energetically pleasurable for both of you ~ plus, a clothed demonstration of an ergonomic partnered posture to take home!

No experience necessary. All identities and bodies are welcome, including receivers desiring to better understand and support their givers (switches get the best of both worlds)!

Come find out what happens when “job” becomes “joy”!

Full info, venue vetting, and tickets HERE!

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