Kinky Shadow Work Series

Regenerative Relationships: Creating Sustainable Abundance in Polyamory

Event Details

1. 🕗 Workshop: 7:30pm
2. 🕗 Jam: 10:30pm
3. 🕗 Event ends: 12:30am
4. 📍 Location: Herald Square NYC (Full address provided in your confirmation email)
5. 🌟 Accessibility: This venue has elevator access

Join us in the fun and enticing worlds of Kink and Tantric practice for consensual adults.

🌀 Does Polyamory sometimes feel like an endless juggling act?

Imagine your relationship constellation as a toroidal field (aka: a donut of infinite energy). When tuned right, each relationship charges you up and sends that spark rippling through the rest of your connections!

In this workshop, we’ll flip the script on polyamory as “too much to manage” and start thinking like energy alchemists. Instead of scarcity math (“if I give here, I lose there”), we’ll experiment with regenerative dynamics—where love, intimacy, and attention create exponential returns. Think ecosystem, but hotter: your relationships pollinating each other, cross-pollinating desire, and sustaining abundance across your entire constellation.

Come learn how to build a relationship network that’s less about burnout and more about turn-on, resilience, and sustainable joy.

What You'll Learn:

💜 Mapping Your Current Relationship Ecosystem

💜 How scarcity mindset creates disharmony in ENM

💜 The Four Pillars of Regenerative Relationships

💜 How to design regenerative relationship agreements

💜 Somatic practices for transforming jealousy/scarcity into regenerative flow.

We are having a 2-part evening of indulgence and learning. Come for the workshop and stay for the Jam to practice what you learned and meet other like-minded folks!

This is a trauma-informed, kink-aware, non-monogamy-affirming space. All genders, orientations, and relationship styles welcome. You do not need to be currently partnered to attend. This workshop involves potentially activating material around jealousy, trauma, and emotional safety. Please come prepared to take care of yourself. You are always welcome to pass, pause, or step away from any activity. A resource corner and support options will be available.

🧰 What to Wear / What to Bring:

1. Comfortable clothes you can move and sit in for extended periods
2. A journal and pen
3. Water bottle and snacks
4. Optional: personal objects for comfort (crystals, pillows, etc.)

Curiosity, compassion, and a willingness to go deep

Exclusive "Jam" After the Workshop

After the main session, join our intimate Jam session, where you’ll have the chance to ask questions, practice the tools you’ve learned, and receive personalized coaching guidance from Danny and Vanessa Panzella-Velez. This is your opportunity to deepen your learning and apply the skills in a supportive and playful space.

About Facilitators

Danny and Vanessa are trauma-informed Psychedelic Integration, intimacy and relationship coaches who specialize in helping couples heal and thrive through sacred connection. With over a decade of experience studying tantra, psychedelic integration, and somatic practices, they bring a unique blend of ancient wisdom and modern science to their teaching.

Vanessa and Danny’s journey from toxic relationship patterns to tantric intimacy has fueled their passion to guide others toward emotional safety and fulfillment. Through intimacy tool like psychedelic therapies, tantra, somatic, kink and pleasure healing Danny and Vanessa offer a compassionate approach rooted in trauma healing and nervous system regulation. Together, they’ve created transformative workshops, coaching programs, and events that inspire couples to embrace vulnerability, passion, and deep connection.

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TICKETS

Prices increase as tiers sell out—don’t wait! Bring a friend/partner and save.

🎟️ Workshop & Jam $72

🎟️ Workshop Only $40

LATE ENTRY AND REFUNDS

Refunds must be requested 7 days prior to event - if you can't make it, please gift or sell your ticket to a worthy soul. To protect the space, late arrivals will not be admitted after doors close, and refunds will not be provided.

Important Notice

Pagans Paradise events are intended for educational and entertainment purposes, and attendees participate at their own risk. Some events may involve physical or emotional exploration, and by attending, you agree to take personal responsibility for your well-being. Pagans Paradise upholds Eventbrite's community guidelines, this event is not sex-based, hookup-style, explicit, or pornographic, and all activities within our events are consensual, respectful, and professionally guided.

ABOUT US

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