Does any of this sound familiar?
Your relationship feels more like routine roommates instead of a remarkable connection
Your Partner has trouble finding your pleasure buttons
You wonder, will your s3x life ever fulfill your fantasies
You are not alone
I’ve heard these worries time and again from clients who have all but given up on the idea of having a fantastic sex life and satisfying relationship.
This is something that you can change
I know it’s easy to believe that you are broken, undesirable, weird or just not ‘good’ at sex or relationship.
You may think that you’re not attractive enough, connected enough, or sexy at all.
I want you to know: That’s not true.
I believe that ANYONE (yes, including you) can have delicious, sex and intimacy that you are craving.
The truth is that it takes some learning to turn yourself “on” and then become the Relationship Master you have always fantasized about.
But here’s the deal… we don’t learn these things in the general course of life, do we?
Have you ever had relationship conversation at the dinner table? No.
Did you ever learn how to please a lover and get what you want in return during a high school s3x-ed class? Probably not
Did your first partner show you exactly how to be an incredible lover and have amazing orgasms? I doubt it.
You see, in today’s world, you’ve either got the internet– with it’s myths, bad porn and mixed information or a pile of inexperience (yours or your friends’) to teach you about sex and intimacy.
That hasn’t worked so well, has it?
HOWEVER…
With the support of a skilled expert who won’t flinch, blush, or run away from your most embarrassing questions, you really can learn how to master relationships and become an expert in extraordinary pleasure
That’s where I come in…
Over the last 20+ years I have worked with hundreds of singles and couples on their sex life. Together, we have cleared out the sexual skeletons in their closet so they can have not just satisfying….. but spectacular sex (whatever that looks like to them.)
My story didn’t start off this way…
I’ve always been a sensual person but growing up, I was told the mixed message that sex is wonderful but it will kill you. I was told that you have to be in some kind of a relationship in order to have sex.
Do these stories sound familiar?
Because of that story, more than once I found myself in the kinds of relationships I didn’t quite want – just to feed my desire for sex.
But, doing relationships that way doesn’t really work. After one particularly unpleasant breakup, I found myself devastated, curled up in a ball unable to function.
That was the moment I decided: Deborah, it’s time to learn how to do sex on MY TERMS.
So, I started to explore…
I read anything and everything I could find on sex & dating (this was before the internet was a thing) and eventually found myself in classes with all kinds of mentors and teachers who would openly talk about sex and answer many of the things I was wondering.
From there I dove deeper into becoming a teacher myself with certifications in three different Tantra methods, as a Bondassage Trainer and an Orgasmic Meditation Coach.
Now, I get to bring the thousands of hours I’ve spent in trainings, classes and bedrooms (as well as other fun spots!) to you so that you can have the support and safety you need to explore, have fun and enjoy a juicy sex life.
That’s why I created “Relationship Mastery: The Art of Extraordinary Pleasure”
Your mission should you choose to accept it is to enjoy sexy date nights with your partner where you feel confident in your desires , have deeply connected conversations and experiment with something different in the bedroom.
Imagine waking up the next morning feeling deeply satiated and like you can revel in this warmly delicious feeling for the rest of the morning.
That’s what’s possible from Relationship Mastery…
Embark on an 7-week transformative journey where you'll redefine the bounds of physical connection, deepen your bond with your partner and master the skills for a satisfying and sensual relationship.
⎷ Cultivate a Safe Space for Vulnerable Communication
Transform your relationship by fostering trust and intimacy, enabling you to weave a thread of vulnerability into every interaction, bringing you closer than ever to your partner. Learn how to confidently speak up and ask for what you want (or don’t want) so you get exactly what you desire in the relationship.
⎷ Experiment with New Pleasure Techniques
Dive into the treasure trove of erotic experiences, mastering the art of pleasure that will elevate your intimate connection to exhilarating new heights and keep you both craving more.
--> 6 Group Training Calls
Gain priceless insights and personalized guidance in these interactive sessions to learn practical techniques, practice in a safe space and get live support on your journey to better sex.
--> Mindful Mornings
Incorporate the ancient wisdom of Tantra into your mornings, nurturing a sacred sexual energy that will infuse your entire day with an intensified sense of passion and connection.
--> Direct Message Support
Have your most pressing concerns and intimate questions addressed on-the-go, so you stay aligned on the path toward an extraordinary sex life.
--> Private Online Community
A safe space for community support , regular prompts for reflection, extra content and a place to ask questions so that you’re not alone through this relationship and personal journey.
--> Access to the Better Sex Library
Access my 20+ years of accumulated research in relationship and pleasure techniques, as well as my own archive of Masterclasses and two Summits on a range of topics to continue your sexual exploration.
--> Relationship Lab Assignments
Regular Play Assignments treating your relationship as a laboratory to explore new ideas, learn together, and evolve as individuals and as a couple.
Relationship Mastery: The Art of Extraordinary Pleasure
Starting September 11th 2025