Choose Your Own Relationship Symposium

Join us for this special Choose Your Own Relationship Symposium featuring some of the most renowned thought leaders in the world of relationships, sexuality and non-monogamy!

Note: This class will be recorded and available for 30 days after the event for all ticket holders. Plura+ members get FREE tickets!

Schedule

4pm - 5:30pm PT / 7pm - 8:30 ET

Dating Your Species w/ Reid Mihalko

5:45pm - 6:45pm PT / 8:45pm - 9:45pm ET

Polycule Pro-Tips w/ Jessica and Joe Daylover of Remodeled Love

7pm - 8pm PT / 10pm - 11pm ET

Conscious Monogamy: Redefining Commitment, Connection and Choice w/ Dakota Ramppen

Workshop Descriptions

Dating Your Species w/ Reid Mihalko

4pm - 5:30pm PT / 7pm - 8:30pm ET

Why do we fall in love with good people who are HORRIBLE fits for us? 

Are you confused about dating, mating, and relating in the 21st Century? Unsure how to make a relationship last past binge-watching a NETFLIX show together? Can’t tell Mr/Ms. Right from Mr/Ms. Trainwreck?

Sex and relationship expert Reid Mihalko of ReidAboutSex.com knows what you need to make the current dating and mating scene less screwed up. Join us for this humorous, frank, and illuminating, workshop where Reid boils down more than 150,000 conversations he’s had about sex and relationships and walks YOU through his best thinking and advice on making sex, dating, relationships and mating work!

Polycule Pro-Tips w/ Jessica and Joe Daylover of Remodeled Love

5:45pm - 6:45pm PT / 8:45pm - 9:45pm ET

Discover the foundational elements necessary to building thriving, harmonious polycules in this one-hour workshop with Jessica and Joe Daylover of Remodeled Love. This session covers essential strategies for communication, boundary-setting, child-rearing, and time management, while offering tools for navigating jealousy, resolving conflicts, and fostering emotional connection. Learn the basics of how to prioritize consent, advocate for needs, maintain sexual and emotional health, and create community. Whether you're new to polyamory or an experienced practitioner, this workshop will provide actionable insights to help your polycule grow sustainably and thrive through life’s changes.

Conscious Monogamy: Redefining Commitment, Connection and Choice w/ Dakota Ramppen

7pm - 8pm PT / 10pm - 11pm ET

Monogamy isn’t one-size-fits-all—it’s a conscious choice that requires intention, self-awareness, and ongoing communication. In "Conscious Monogamy: Redefining Commitment, Connection, and Choice," we’ll explore how to approach monogamy in a way that feels authentic and empowering for you and your partner.

This interactive workshop will guide you through redefining monogamy on your own terms, understanding the influence of societal norms, and creating agreements rooted in trust, respect, and mutual growth. Through engaging discussions, practical exercises, and guided reflections, you’ll learn how to navigate boundaries, foster individuality within your relationship, and build a partnership that evolves with you.

Whether you're in a relationship, single, or simply curious, this workshop offers the tools to cultivate a more intentional and fulfilling approach to love and commitment.

Meet Your Presenters

Reid Mihalko

As seen on NETFLIX' "Chelsea Does..." alongside Chelsea Handler, Reid Mihalko (he/him) of ReidAboutSex.com is an internationally known sex and relationship geek who helps adults create more self-esteem, self-confidence, and greater health and accountability in their relationships and sex lives using an inspiring mixture of humor, personal stories, keen insight, and comprehensive sexual health information. 

In early 2018, some very brave people came forward during #MeToo sharing harms that Reid had caused them. Reid stepped down from teaching and initiated a restorative justice-based accountability process to address his misconduct and make amends if and where possible. The formal, year-long process along with Reid’s apology and resources were shared publicly and can be found at TinyURL.com/reidaccountability. Going forward, Reid’s projects and appearances will include pointing people towards resources and experts on restorative and transformative justice-based accountability processes.

Reid’s workshops and college lectures have been attended by over 60,000 people from all over the globe. He has appeared in media such as Oprah's Our America With Lisa Ling on OWN, NETFLIX, Montel, Dr. Phil's The Doctors on CBS, Bravo's Miss Advised, Fox News, in Newsweek, Seventeen, GQ, The Washington Post, and in thirteen countries and at least seven languages.

Reid is also founder of Sex Geek Summer Camp, Sex Geek Conservatory, and Sex Geek School for Gifted Sex Geeks, which help sex educators learn valuable business skills that allow them to reach more people with greater ease, transform more lives, and make a better living as sexperts.

Follow @ReidAboutSex on Instagram, Facebook and YouTube 

Jessica Daylover

Jessica Daylover is an educator, producer, entertainer, mystic, and a queer, polyamous mother of two young children. Jessica has a Bachelor's degree in Philosophy and Sociology from the University of Wisconsin-Madison, with a Certificate in LGBT Studies. An entrepreneur of 20 years, Jessica is most well known for her social media platform, Remodeled Love, and her book "Polyamory & Parenthood", co-written with her husband. With over 180,000 followers across all platforms, Jessica's mission is to expand the cultural narrative on love, family, and parenthood. In 2023 Jessica used her platform to successfully raise over $17,000 to launch an app called Nuclear Fusion whose purpose is helping folks find, build, and sustain their modern village. You can join this global project now at www.nuclearfusionnetwork.com

Joe Daylover

Joseph Daylover is a writer, performer, and musician interested in celebrating and investigating the nature of existence and challenging cultural scripts. He is particularly interested in cooperative systems and reimagining communal ways of living while holding artistic expression as fundamental to inspired living. He has earned a Master’s degree in English and since has pursued self publishing, running theatre companies, and community involvement in various forms. During the pandemic, Joe collaborated with his longtime partner Jessica on Remodeled Love, a platform for expanding the cultural narrative on love through podcasts, blogs, and content creation. He can spotted around the Reno riverwalk, enjoying the mountainous scenery while splashing in the water with his two kids. 

Dakota Ramppen

Dakota Ramppen, founder of Get Real With Dakota, is a spicy sexuality educator, tough love relationship coach, massage candle maker, and sex toy seller based in New Jersey. Dakota’s work focuses on normalizing taboo topics with the help of tough love. Her all love, no bullshit approach makes manifesting and maintaining your #relationshipgoals a breeze whether that’s exploring a new kink, healing relationship trauma, developing more self confidence, or being a #happyhealthyhoe.

Note: This class is held online and will be recorded and available for 30 days after the event for all ticket holders. Plura+ members get free tickets!